08-01-2011, 01:35 PM
Hello Vexna,
this is actually a very common problem, as you may not feel 'up' to going to his grave.
You may not know this is because you miss him, so here's what you need to do:
Go to his grave - you may really not want to go, but you need to find the strength to do it, once you have done it, you will feel so much better, and it will fix all of your problems.
Let out all of your emotions - if you feel uncomfortable doing this, do it when no one is at your house. It is unhealthy to keep your feelings bottled up and actually crying from grief releases toxins which is good for your body.
Once you do these, and once again you may really not want to, but when you do you will feel so much better.
Just remember, your brother would want you to feel sorry but he would also want you to live your life.
He will always be in your heart, so don't ever feel like he would be mad at you for something.
this is actually a very common problem, as you may not feel 'up' to going to his grave.
You may not know this is because you miss him, so here's what you need to do:
Go to his grave - you may really not want to go, but you need to find the strength to do it, once you have done it, you will feel so much better, and it will fix all of your problems.
Let out all of your emotions - if you feel uncomfortable doing this, do it when no one is at your house. It is unhealthy to keep your feelings bottled up and actually crying from grief releases toxins which is good for your body.
Once you do these, and once again you may really not want to, but when you do you will feel so much better.
Just remember, your brother would want you to feel sorry but he would also want you to live your life.
He will always be in your heart, so don't ever feel like he would be mad at you for something.
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