05-02-2012, 02:02 AM
First off, you will never end up like your dad from what I have read. You are an excelling student and have a great knowledge of computers. As for the girl, you need to move on. But start small, first off find something that takes your mind off her, for me this is usually work, then as you get more and more confident and build yourself back up, start going out and meeting new people that you can relate to. They do not have to be your girlfriend straight away but try to make friends and stick with them. After a while you will start seeing the inner qualities of them and want to be with them longer, this is how you know they are the one.
Hope I helped.
Hope I helped.