Ok, I'm tired of this. Post #1 I felt empathy, post #2 I said ok that's understandable, post #3 was a little worse, but post #4 pissed me off.
You will for the rest of your life have a low self-esteem if you think like that. I'm 100% fudging serious. The only way you'll listen is the truth: stop being a bitch and stop caring what people think. You are what you are, and screw the rest. Those who mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind. Stop with the low self-esteem, you put that on yourself. Some days I feel like absolute crap and other days I feel like I can rule the world. It's how you think about it. Want to know the truth? Nobody counts how many times you fudge up, except you. The days I feel bad it is because I think I screwed something up (even if it is small) and that people see me different because of it. Nope, no one does. It's all in my head. That is why I wake up in the morning with my positive mindset, and it shows. My confidence shows, people notice confidence. You need to understand this. You're in high school, nothing you do in your school is significant to what you do when you graduate, socially speaking. Most people you'll never see again. So make High School the best it can be, now is you best excuse to not give a fudge. Ask anyone out, stand up for yourself. Do whatever you want.
As for girls, don't talk to ones you only briefly met on Facebook..talk to them in real life, don't "try hard" and flatter girls until the compliments become regular, and don't be nervous in front of girls. News flash, they are humans. They interact just as you do, what do you like when people talk to you? Chances are they like the same thing. If they don't seem interested in you: THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. But what do you have to say? So what. The guys you see who "get mad girls" only get them because they talk to a lot of them. They will get rejected just as much as you if you hung out with the same amount of girls as them. Just be yourself. A great pick-up line is this "hey whats up." After you two know each other adequately well, tell her this: "wanna hangout sometime?" Tell her all of this in person. Then you go hangout, and if you two like each other it will be obvious. You pursue from there. If you fudge up, who cares? No one is keeping track of your screw ups and you learned what not to do in the future.
You're in HS, the perfect time for "Just Do It." So just do it. Not next week, not in a little bit. Tomorrow.
You will for the rest of your life have a low self-esteem if you think like that. I'm 100% fudging serious. The only way you'll listen is the truth: stop being a bitch and stop caring what people think. You are what you are, and screw the rest. Those who mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind. Stop with the low self-esteem, you put that on yourself. Some days I feel like absolute crap and other days I feel like I can rule the world. It's how you think about it. Want to know the truth? Nobody counts how many times you fudge up, except you. The days I feel bad it is because I think I screwed something up (even if it is small) and that people see me different because of it. Nope, no one does. It's all in my head. That is why I wake up in the morning with my positive mindset, and it shows. My confidence shows, people notice confidence. You need to understand this. You're in high school, nothing you do in your school is significant to what you do when you graduate, socially speaking. Most people you'll never see again. So make High School the best it can be, now is you best excuse to not give a fudge. Ask anyone out, stand up for yourself. Do whatever you want.
As for girls, don't talk to ones you only briefly met on Facebook..talk to them in real life, don't "try hard" and flatter girls until the compliments become regular, and don't be nervous in front of girls. News flash, they are humans. They interact just as you do, what do you like when people talk to you? Chances are they like the same thing. If they don't seem interested in you: THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. But what do you have to say? So what. The guys you see who "get mad girls" only get them because they talk to a lot of them. They will get rejected just as much as you if you hung out with the same amount of girls as them. Just be yourself. A great pick-up line is this "hey whats up." After you two know each other adequately well, tell her this: "wanna hangout sometime?" Tell her all of this in person. Then you go hangout, and if you two like each other it will be obvious. You pursue from there. If you fudge up, who cares? No one is keeping track of your screw ups and you learned what not to do in the future.
You're in HS, the perfect time for "Just Do It." So just do it. Not next week, not in a little bit. Tomorrow.
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