11-01-2009, 03:35 PM
I am sadly sorry to say there is nothing that helps you deal with a bully. And none of the school taught methods work.
Accepting it: Will make them think you will lie down and be easy prey forever. Which means they won't leave you alone. The whole bullies want attention is BS, they want dominate.
Ingore it: Doesn't work, because then they feel like they failed. It hurts their pride. It makes them go worse. Sad but true.
Stand up: Nope. You as a person will just get your arse kicked. You are one against someone either pycho. smarter or physo. smarter, which means they can beat you still more then one way.
Speak to someone of authority: Worst you can possibly do. They will come back for revenge harder and worse. Don't do it.
Things that do work:
Scare them: If they think they have pushed you to far and that your gonna make the next collinbine, yea they gonna stay the hell away. (i did this one. It worked for me.)
Get a group: Friends work amazingly. If they are older thats a bonus.
Get a girl: Good and bad. If they like them aswell, bad because they are gonna make you look like a dounce. If not, they will start teasing her, and girls seem never to let one be down.
All imo though.
Accepting it: Will make them think you will lie down and be easy prey forever. Which means they won't leave you alone. The whole bullies want attention is BS, they want dominate.
Ingore it: Doesn't work, because then they feel like they failed. It hurts their pride. It makes them go worse. Sad but true.
Stand up: Nope. You as a person will just get your arse kicked. You are one against someone either pycho. smarter or physo. smarter, which means they can beat you still more then one way.
Speak to someone of authority: Worst you can possibly do. They will come back for revenge harder and worse. Don't do it.
Things that do work:
Scare them: If they think they have pushed you to far and that your gonna make the next collinbine, yea they gonna stay the hell away. (i did this one. It worked for me.)
Get a group: Friends work amazingly. If they are older thats a bonus.
Get a girl: Good and bad. If they like them aswell, bad because they are gonna make you look like a dounce. If not, they will start teasing her, and girls seem never to let one be down.
All imo though.