(06-23-2011, 08:53 PM)Danielle Wrote: Even though it's not as severe as what you're describing, my fiance went through something quite similar when he was younger and living with his parents. They would constantly belittle and yell at him for the decisions he made and how he acted. They would even call him stupid for how he dressed and the music he listened to. Because of how they treated him then, he's very sensitive now and his self esteem is very low. He hasn't lived with them in over 7 years, but he's still affected by how they treated him and he probably always will be.
I don't believe you're overreacting at all. This is an issue you need to address and try to work through with the counselors you said you've talked to. If your parents are up for it, maybe they could go to a therapy session with you. Have you talked to them about how they make you feel? If not, they might be completely clueless on how you feel about it. It really does sound like you're more sensitive than they are so they could have no idea about what they're doing to you.
They know how I feel about how they act towards me and react towards it. My counselor has talked with them personally as well as I have myself. They still continue for who knows why.
I bet I'm going to end up like your fiance... I'm pretty much like that already... Sadly, I'm forced to live with them... Only a little while longer till I can leave for good.
(06-23-2011, 06:06 PM)Firetech Wrote: If my parrents scream at my music I just turn the angerfist megamic and max volume and say what ?
Is that going to be your response to this... Really? >.>
This isn't related to music you know, that is simply an example of what has been going on.
