I can't handle this

[Dεlluzion]

It may nearly be just a co-incidence.

Also, I want to ask one thing clearly - you dumped them because they were raped in the past?

Also, you should support them instead of getting pissed at them.
Just because they both had horrible pasts of getting raped, shouldn't change your perspective towards them.

I did not include that I dumped them so do not have the false thought that I did. They, in fact, dumped me.

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At times like this, always remember one thing. You can't choose who you fall in love with.

My advice is simple. Be compassionate and warm. No matter what has gone wrong in her life, you have to be the pillar of support.

If you feel like you must search for someone who has not been physically abused, then you'll indeed have an awkward and distressing time.
Imagine walking up to someone and saying, "Excuse me. Have you ever been raped?"

Excuse me if you think I might have deviated from the topic a bit, but my point is, you have to believe that at some point or another, crap happens. To anyone. Its up to you if you want to help them get over it, or switch over to singleship.

Thanks for this. I have taken it into consideration, and what you say is exactly right. I am going to start accepting what has happened to the girls I meet, which includes what I have wrote in the topic.