03-29-2011, 11:57 PM
I think if it was meant to be, you wouldn't be asking! My boyfriend and I of almost 5 years had sex the second night we spent together, and didn't expect that we'd be soul mates. LOL However, my bf didn't push me into it. We had been casual friends with an obvious attraction for about 6 months before we were together but I think this guy you're talking about wants sex and if he was truly interested in keeping a relationship with you, he would respect you as a woman, and not a sex object. The right guy would wait a reasonable amount of time until you're comfortable. Yeah, if the sex sucked, I doubt I'd be with my bf, but since we had such a strong connection, it couldn't have been bad if we tried.
hope that helps a little.
hope that helps a little.