03-29-2011, 07:49 PM
(This post was last modified: 03-29-2011, 07:59 PM by monique12345.)
Thank you. Good advice. He has waited for 3 months. but when i said just release your tension with someone else, he wrote OK. Weird really. i like that he is very sensual and i guess i am curious. He is private which is what i like. he has a dilemma with woman, and that is that he has a very large tool so to speak. This may explain something for him as it has not been easy for him. i wonder if he is protecting his emotions to see if the sexual connection is there first. i have always played it safe, and i guess a part of me is fed up of it. I have only ever been with one man and I am wanting intimacy. Here is this guy, a little odd but something special about him who is willing to give it without being obsessive. I am drawn to him for some reason. I am worried that i get hooked and he tosses me away. I am going on what if all the time and i would like to change my mindset. I guess alot is with how i have been raised with random sexual encounters is a taboo.
How can i know if he really is into me and not just sees me as a female in a skirt? He says all the right things and is honest in saying he wants sex, last time for him is December. He will not wait for months and he is clear that he has little time with his work, school and kids. his kids seem to run his life too. i asked him why the other relations have not worked, he said it is because the woman wanted to move in and all that. I have made it clear that i want to emotionally connect as his heart is so closed. Maybe a kiss is safer to start with and see how that feels. I dont think i want to fall into a trap where he contacts me to just have sex, and using the times i just want to chat as he is now busy with everything else. I am stuck, all advice is really welcomed. i am just not experienced and do not want to get hurt.
How can i know if he really is into me and not just sees me as a female in a skirt? He says all the right things and is honest in saying he wants sex, last time for him is December. He will not wait for months and he is clear that he has little time with his work, school and kids. his kids seem to run his life too. i asked him why the other relations have not worked, he said it is because the woman wanted to move in and all that. I have made it clear that i want to emotionally connect as his heart is so closed. Maybe a kiss is safer to start with and see how that feels. I dont think i want to fall into a trap where he contacts me to just have sex, and using the times i just want to chat as he is now busy with everything else. I am stuck, all advice is really welcomed. i am just not experienced and do not want to get hurt.