03-18-2011, 09:19 AM
Wow, that is a lot of info to take in at once (since I just caught up to the thread).
What's the situation with his girlfriend? Has he done anything with her, like broken up with her? I don't think you mentioned any updates on it :/ If he hasn't broken up with her, he needs to. It's kind of hard to miss the fact that he got kicked out and she will not appreciate the reason why. It's not fun to be cheated on, even if it was the "straw that broke the camel's back" sort of thing.
As for the step-sister, she's not a gold digger. She's on her way to being a sexual predator. If she knows anything about the age of consent then she would know that what she's doing will get older men like that in trouble. If she's really that aggressive in seducing men, then that's something that her family needs to settle. She needs to see someone like a therapist or counselor or something. If left on her own, she could target more people in an even more dangerous way.
And as for your friend...how is he doing now? This is going to be a hard time for him, so if you're constantly there and can stand it, he will need support to keep going. If he is depressed a lot or is somewhat suicidal, don't stand around. Try to help him or get him help. If he's dragged through court, this will be a major test on his mental health.
Keep us all updated. Good luck <3
What's the situation with his girlfriend? Has he done anything with her, like broken up with her? I don't think you mentioned any updates on it :/ If he hasn't broken up with her, he needs to. It's kind of hard to miss the fact that he got kicked out and she will not appreciate the reason why. It's not fun to be cheated on, even if it was the "straw that broke the camel's back" sort of thing.
As for the step-sister, she's not a gold digger. She's on her way to being a sexual predator. If she knows anything about the age of consent then she would know that what she's doing will get older men like that in trouble. If she's really that aggressive in seducing men, then that's something that her family needs to settle. She needs to see someone like a therapist or counselor or something. If left on her own, she could target more people in an even more dangerous way.
And as for your friend...how is he doing now? This is going to be a hard time for him, so if you're constantly there and can stand it, he will need support to keep going. If he is depressed a lot or is somewhat suicidal, don't stand around. Try to help him or get him help. If he's dragged through court, this will be a major test on his mental health.
Keep us all updated. Good luck <3