01-18-2011, 02:46 PM
(01-18-2011, 07:42 AM)NinJa_12 Wrote: one thing that i think might be a missing link in this big picture of yours is....which you havent really mentioned.......what does your dad think about all of this?Have you ever spoken to him about it?Give it a go maybe he can help turn things around for all of you.Maybe there is something that you and your sister dont really know about which could be causing strain on your parents and they are both locking themselves in their own worlds and forgetting that it is causing you guys problems without even realising it.Your mum sounds very over-protective of your sister?do you live in a bad area or was it always like that, that your sister was nt aloud to do anything?Yet again i would say try consulting your dad or even then try getting your sister to ask your mum if she can do something whilst your dad is in the same room and get your dad to back her up against your mum.Maybe if he does this more often then your mum might back off just alittle bit and realise that as a growing young lady in her teens she also needs abit of freeedom.Im sorry to hear about the strain on your family and i hope things get better for all of you soon
if you ever need to ask advice or for help just PM me and ill be glad to see what i can do for you
My dad is aware of the situation. He also agrees that those pills she are taking are just a waste of time. He also sees that she makes the biggest deals out of the smallest things. ...And he makes fun of her for talking on the phone so much, although jokingly. And we actually live in a very nice area and I don't think anything in the past has changed her mind from being over protective. She has always been like that.
Thanks for the help!