01-10-2011, 11:36 AM
(This post was last modified: 01-10-2011, 11:37 AM by Death Trap™.)
(01-10-2011, 09:32 AM)Solidify Wrote: I agree about the sooner he ends it, the better. But he's too nervous to do it. He says that when they started dating, his girlfriend's parents doubted they'd last and he had an argument with them. So now, he's worried about making his girlfriend look back if he breaks up with her, her family will be like 'I told you so'.
He should pick up his balls and do it as trying to put all the blame on himself so it sounds like it wasn't her fault it happened. Tell him that if he doesn't do it now, he will be hurting her more in the future.Ask him how long will he even stay with her? Till "they" get married? It will be the same if they breakup before getting married, her parents will say the same thing. The only way to avoid her parents saying that is to actually "get married" to her so it seems they made it. If not, breakup still can happen. In the long run, it will hurt her more than him.