09-03-2010, 04:14 PM
I have a really good feeling if you can do it in person, it'll happen. I've had success with it in the long-distance era of my relationship. She needs to be convinced that the small amount of time you guys get together isn't so bad, compared to something like being 2000 miles apart. Like I said earlier, relationships will always have rough patches that require both people to get by. I know that if both of you are committed then your relationship will be a good and lasting one. But first thing is first: Get her back.
Also be aware that if she truly doesn't want to, and she knows it for sure, then it will never work. Do not dig yourself into a deeper hole if this happens. Do not continue to pursue her. Give yourself at least 4-6 months before dating again, or until you feel like you've truly accepted what happened. It sounds near impossible, but it must be possible if so many people go through it.
Like I said though, I think it might work out if you can tell her. If you've never told her you love her, think about it.
Also be aware that if she truly doesn't want to, and she knows it for sure, then it will never work. Do not dig yourself into a deeper hole if this happens. Do not continue to pursue her. Give yourself at least 4-6 months before dating again, or until you feel like you've truly accepted what happened. It sounds near impossible, but it must be possible if so many people go through it.
Like I said though, I think it might work out if you can tell her. If you've never told her you love her, think about it.