So, I've been dealing with some serious separation anxiety with my dog lately and it's been quite the journey. Ever since I started going back to the office a few days a week, my Labrador, Max, has been getting really anxious when I leave. I've tried leaving him with toys, playing music, and even those calming sprays but nothing seems to work for long. I read somewhere that practicing short departures can help, but honestly, I'm not seeing much progress. It's heartbreaking to see him so stressed out. Anybody have any other tips or tricks that worked for their pups? Maybe something I haven't thought of yet? Would love to hear your experiences or any advice you might have. Also, does anyone have thoughts on getting a second dog as a companion? Here's a cute pic of Max trying to dig through my suitcase when I was packing last week! 🐾 [link to image] Looking forward to hearing your thoughts!

Separation anxiety can be tough on both you and Max, but you're definitely not alone in this! One thing that worked wonders for my dog was gradually increasing the time I spent away, starting from just a few minutes and slowly building up. It's a bit like training them to understand that you'll always come back. Another idea is to create a cozy spot for Max with a piece of your clothing, so he has your scent around. As for getting a second dog, it can be a great solution, but it's important to consider if you're ready for the extra responsibility and if Max is comfortable around other dogs. Sometimes, it helps to have a playdate first to see how he reacts. Good luck, and give Max a belly rub from me! 🐶

Dealing with separation anxiety can be really challenging, but you're doing great by trying different things. One thing that helped my dog was creating a consistent routine. Dogs thrive on predictability, so having a set schedule for walks, meals, and playtime can help Max feel more secure. Also, have you tried interactive toys or treat puzzles? They can keep him engaged and distracted while you're away.

As for getting a second dog, it can be beneficial, but it's a big decision. Some dogs thrive with a companion, while others might not adjust as well. Maybe try arranging some playdates with other dogs first to see how Max reacts. Hope this helps, and that picture of Max is adorable! 🐶

Dealing with separation anxiety can be really challenging, but it sounds like you're doing all the right things to help Max. When I faced a similar situation with my dog, I found that leaving a piece of clothing with my scent helped comfort him. Also, a consistent routine can make a big difference, as dogs often find security in predictability. 🐶

As for getting a second dog, it can be a great idea, but it depends on Max's personality and your lifestyle. Some dogs thrive with a companion, while others might feel more stressed. If you do consider it, maybe try fostering first to see how Max reacts to having another dog around. Good luck! 😊

Max sounds like such a sweet guy, and I totally get how tough it is seeing him stressed like that. When I dealt with my pup’s separation anxiety, I found that mixing up the routine helped a bit—like sometimes leaving for just a minute or two but also doing longer departures unpredictably. It seemed to break the pattern and made his anxiety less about the exact timing.

Also, I was curious about the idea of a second dog as a companion. It worked for a friend of mine, but it really depends on your lifestyle and how Max adjusts to other dogs. Sometimes a furry buddy can help, but other times it adds complexity. Maybe you could try some doggy daycare or playdates first to see how Max reacts to company?

Hang in there! It’s clear you’re doing your best for him, and sometimes it’s just a slow process. That suitcase-digging Max pic must be adorable—he’s definitely got personality!

On 11/22/2025 at 1:40 PM, PennyPincher123 said:

Max sounds like such a sweet guy, and I totally get how tough it is seeing him stressed like that. When I dealt with my pup’s separation anxiety, I found that mixing up the routine helped a bit—like sometimes leaving for just a minute or two but also doing longer departures unpredictably. It seemed to break the pattern and made his anxiety less about the exact timing.

Also, I was curious about the idea of a second dog as a companion. It worked for a friend of mine, but it really depends on your lifestyle and how Max adjusts to other dogs. Sometimes a furry buddy can help, but other times it adds complexity. Maybe you could try some doggy daycare or playdates first to see how Max reacts to company?

Hang in there! It’s clear you’re doing your best for him, and sometimes it’s just a slow process. That suitcase-digging Max pic must be adorable—he’s definitely got personality!

@PennyPincher123, that’s a really insightful approach! Breaking the predictability of departures sounds like a clever way to keep Max guessing and less focused on the routine, which might help reduce his anxiety. I’ve heard from a few folks here that mixing up the timing can prevent dogs from anticipating the usual “cue” that triggers their stress.

It’s great you mentioned that because I was just thinking about how @GiggleGuru’s gradual time increase method pairs well with your unpredictability tactic—kind of like combining steady training with a bit of surprise. Maybe together, they could give Max a better sense that your leaving isn’t always the same stressful event.

Also, about the idea of a second dog as a companion, I’ve seen mixed results. Sometimes it helps, but other times it can add a different kind of stress if the new dog has their own anxieties. Definitely something to weigh carefully, but having a buddy could be a comfort for