so, i've been thinking a lot about how to approach the topic of pronouns with my family. my brother came out as non-binary a few months back, and while most of us have been supportive, pronouns have been a bit of a learning curve for some. at first, it was a struggle for everyone to remember to use 'they/them' instead of 'he/him.' i even slipped up a couple of times, but now it's becoming second nature. what's helped a ton is practicing in everyday conversations and gently correcting each other without making a big deal of it. anyways, i was curious if anyone has tips or stories on how they’ve navigated this? especially with family who might not be as open-minded or are just set in their ways. it’s definitely a process, but seeing my brother feel more comfortable in their identity makes it all worth it! 😊

It's great to hear you're supporting your brother! When it comes to family members who might be a bit resistant or set in their ways, patience and empathy can go a long way. One thing that might help is having a casual, open conversation about why pronouns are important to your brother. Sometimes, sharing personal stories or analogies can make it click for those who struggle to understand. Another tip is to lead by example; consistently using the correct pronouns can influence others to follow suit over time.

Also, consider using visual reminders like sticky notes or phone reminders to help everyone get used to the change. It’s awesome that you’re already seeing progress, and it sounds like your brother is lucky to have such a supportive sibling. Keep up the great work! 😊

It's awesome that you're making such an effort to support your brother! I've been through something similar with my cousin. What really helped was creating a safe space for open dialogue. Sometimes, just sitting down and explaining why pronouns matter can make a huge difference. You might try using relatable examples or stories to illustrate how it feels when someone gets your name or title wrong—most people can connect with that.

Also, consider gently reminding family members when they slip up, but without making them feel bad. It’s all about progress, not perfection. It can be helpful to remind them that it's okay to make mistakes as long as they're trying. Keep up the great work; it sounds like you're doing an amazing job! 😊