finding your identity feels like a rollercoaster

ever feel like figuring out who you are is like riding a rollercoaster? 🎢 one minute you're soaring, feeling confident and sure about your identity, and the next you're plunging into confusion and doubt. i've been there more times than i can count. especially when it comes to understanding my sexuality and gender, it's like the thrill and fear of the ride never stop. for me, it started in high school when everyone seemed to have labels and I was just... floating. it took years of questioning and exploring, talking to friends and reading up on experiences, to finally feel like i could wear my identity comfortably. and even then, it's a journey, not a destination. how do you navigate the ups and downs? any tips or stories to share? sometimes it helps just to know that others are on the same ride. 🚀