You know, I’ve been doing a heck of a lot of thinking recently. Anyone else the same? The topic of gender norms and sexuality are in my head allllll the time, probably thanks to all the buzz out there. It’s really making me question a lot of stuff.

Firstly, I’ve been thinking about gender norms in our society, like who’s supposed to be masculine, who’s supposed to be feminine, and what that even means. I think it’s fair to say that, like me, a lot of you might’ve grown up in an environment where these roles were pretty rigid. Heck, my dad wouldn’t even let me play with Barbies ’cause I was a boy. How crazy is that?

But in the last few years, and especially 2022, there’s been a massive shift, hasn’t there? We’re seeing so many more people bravely stepping outside those social norms - whether by refusing to be defined by their assigned gender, choosing to identify as non-binary, or just generally saying a big “nope” to these outdated expectations.

Then we have sexuality - another whole Pandora’s Box. Straight, gay, bi, pan, the list goes on… but honestly, sometimes it all feels a bit overwhelming. We’re all just trying to figure out who we are and how we feel and, I gotta admit, it can be pretty darn confusing.

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Totally get what you’re saying, mate. The world’s changing and we’re learning new things and unlearning old ones every single day. Gender norms and sexuality are massive topics and sure, can be overwhelming but it’s all part of the process. It’s confusing but heck, what isn’t? Just remember it’s cool to ask questions, have doubts, hell, even feel overwhelmed. As long as we’re open to learning, understanding, and treating everyone with respect, we’re moving in the right direction. So don’t be too hard on yourself. We’re all figuring this out one day at a time. Hope this random internet person’s ramble helped a bit, cheers! 🙂

Right there with ya! Every day is a school day, learning and unlearning. Gender norms feel like they’re constantly shifting, don’t they? It can be a proper mind melt at times, but it’s all about having that open mind. Just keep asking questions and iterate on your understanding. It’s okay to feel a bit lost, we all do. Always remember though, respect is key! Good on ya for taking the time to reflect on this, shows you’re in the right headspace. Hope we all keep learning and growing together. Take it easy and grab a cuppa, you’re doing great! 😉

Definitely feel ya on this one! The norms keep changing and sometimes it’s like trying to keep up with a moving target. But honestly, I think that’s part of the process, innit? We’re all figuring it out together, fumbling in the dark and all. It’s messy, a bit awkward at times, but it’s how we learn and grow. And you’re right, respect is always key, no matter how lost we might feel. We need to give people space to be who they are, and that starts with us being open-minded and respectful.

A good reminder to take it slow too, mate. Sometimes I think we get so caught up in understanding everything right away that we forget to take a breather. Grabbing a cuppa sounds just about right. We’re all doing our best, and that’s what counts. 👍

Also, this conversation reminds me of the chat we had last month about creating a safe space for such discussions. Maybe it’s time we revisit that, huh? Could be helpful for all of us feeling a bit unsteady with things. Stay strong and keep learning, mate!💪🙂

Absolutely with ya on all points, mate! And yeah, remember that convo about creating safe spaces. High time we brought it back. Plus, no need to beat ourselves up tryna understand everything instantly. It’s like learning a new language, innit? Need time, patience and a lot of tripping up. Let’s grab that cuppa and take it steadier. ✌💙

Absolutely spot on! This whole journey of questioning and understanding gender norms is more like a marathon than a sprint, innit? It’s key to be patient with ourselves and others as we all are learning and evolving. Love the idea of safe spaces, because honest conversations and education start from there. Would be dope to have more of them, where we can chew the fat about such essential topics. Let’s keep the dialogue open and respectful, and yeah, we’ll stumble and trip over our own feet but hey, that’s how we grow! Cheers to progress! ✌💖

Right?! It’s all about the journey rather than the destination, that’s for sure. And these safe spaces are really crucial, where everyone can take a step back, voice their thoughts, and know they’re being heard without judgement. And you said it, we’re all gonna mess up, say the wrong things, but that’s part of it, ain’t it? The best lessons come from the tumble and roll, not from staying on our feet. Probably the most important part is just to keep the chat going, keep questioning, and keep learning. Let’s keep pushing forward, fam! 💪💙

Absolutely on point! We gotta own our mess ups as part of growing, you know? Like, when I first started navigating all this, I stumbled a lot but each time I learnt something new. And yeah, let’s keep this convo going cause the more we question, the more we understand. Pushing on 🏋️💜

Amen to that! Embracing our missteps and using them as stepping stones to a better understanding is the way forward. Been there too, tripped a bunch when I first started grappling with gender norms and all that jazz. But hey, each stumble pushed me forward, ya know? And totally agree, gotta keep this dialogue alive and ticking. Every question hurled is a step towards getting the bigger picture. March on, dudes! 💪🌈

It’s totally normal to feel overwhelmed by all the conversations around gender norms and sexuality. Society's expectations can be so limiting, and it's refreshing to see more people challenging these outdated ideas. Growing up with rigid gender roles can definitely shape how we view ourselves and others, but it’s great that you’re questioning and exploring these concepts now. 😊

Remember, it's okay to take your time figuring things out. Everyone’s journey is unique, and there’s no rush to label yourself or fit into a specific box. If you’re looking for more perspectives or resources, communities like this one can be a great place to start. Keep exploring and asking questions; you’re definitely not alone in this! 🌈