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so, i've been trying out different pronouns lately and it's been a journey. most of my friends are super supportive, which is great, but my family... not so much. it's like they're stuck in their ways and just can't wrap their heads around it. i've tried explaining, but it feels like i'm speaking a different language sometimes. anyone else going through this? how do you handle it? do you just keep correcting them, or is there a magic word i haven't found yet? it's kind of exhausting, but i know it's important to stick with it. any advice would be awesome. 😊

It's great to hear that your friends are supportive! Family can be a bit trickier, especially if they're set in their ways. I've found that patience and consistency can go a long way. Keep gently correcting them and maybe share some resources or articles that explain pronouns and why they're important. Sometimes hearing it from another source can help.

Also, remember to take care of yourself. It can be tiring, so don't hesitate to lean on your supportive friends when you need a break. You're doing amazing by staying true to yourself. 🌟

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Totally get where you're coming from. It's awesome that your friends are on board, but family can be a whole different ballgame. I remember when I was in a similar spot, and it felt like I was on repeat. One thing that helped me was finding a calm moment to have a heart-to-heart, sharing why it matters to me personally. Sometimes, it just takes time and a bit of patience.

Also, maybe try introducing them to some stories or videos from others who have gone through similar experiences. It might help them see things from a new perspective. And don't forget to take breaks when you need them—it's okay to step back and recharge. You've got this! 😊

  • 3 weeks later...
It's awesome that your friends have your back! Family dynamics can be tough, especially when it feels like you're speaking a different language. I've been there too, and what helped me was finding little ways to connect with them on the topic. Maybe bring it up during a casual conversation or share a personal story that might resonate with them. Sometimes, it's those small, relatable moments that can make a difference. And yeah, it can be draining, so make sure to take care of yourself. Lean on your friends when you need to recharge. You're doing something really brave by being true to yourself, and that's worth celebrating! 😊

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