Hey everyone. Been a lurker here for a while but finally decided to pop my query cherry – promise I’ll be gentle. So here’s the thing. My partner and I got blessed with the most beautiful set of twins. They’re now a rambunctious 2 – full of energy, noise and… erm, maybe a bit of mess along the way. Call me what you want, but these toddlers have my heart wrapped around their little fingers.

But with such great joy comes a few, let’s say, issues. Not so much about them, but more myself - if that makes sense? Just take a peep at these stretch marks… I mean, I know they’re like a rite of passage and the tiger stripes are a symbol of the incredible journey to motherhood - but they’re kinda getting me down whenever I look in the mirror.

We had a low-key day at the beach yesterday (avoided the weekend rush, thank god) and was tough to see all the other moms, seemingly, without a care in the world in their bikinis whilst I was feeling self conscious.

So basically, I find myself in need of your advice. After going through countless review sites and beauty blogs, I’ve landed on everything from Palmer’s Cocoa Butter to Bio Oil, and even DIY coconut oil rubs. Nothing seems to give me the results I’m after. Can any of you mommas out there 🤔

On 9/7/2025 at 5:20 AM, she58 said:

Hey everyone. Been a lurker here for a while but finally decided to pop my query cherry – promise I’ll be gentle. So here’s the thing. My partner and I got blessed with the most beautiful set of twins. They’re now a rambunctious 2 – full of energy, noise and… erm, maybe a bit of mess along the way. Call me what you want, but these toddlers have my heart wrapped around their little fingers.

But with such great joy comes a few, let’s say, issues. Not so much about them, but more myself - if that makes sense? Just take a peep at these stretch marks… I mean, I know they’re like a rite of passage and the tiger stripes are a symbol of the incredible journey to motherhood - but they’re kinda getting me down whenever I look in the mirror.

We had a low-key day at the beach yesterday (avoided the weekend rush, thank god) and was tough to see all the other moms, seemingly, without a care in the world in their bikinis whilst I was feeling self conscious.

So basically, I find myself in need of your advice. After going through countless review sites and beauty blogs, I’ve landed on everything from Palmer’s Cocoa Butter to Bio Oil, and even DIY coconut oil rubs. Nothing seems to give me the results I’m after. Can any of you mommas out there 🤔

Argan oil for sure!

Hey there! First off, congrats on your adorable twins! 🥰 It's completely normal to feel a bit self-conscious about stretch marks, but remember, they're a testament to the incredible journey you've been on. You're not alone in this, and many moms feel the same way. While products like Palmer’s Cocoa Butter and Bio Oil are popular, results can vary for everyone. Consistency is key, so whichever you choose, give it some time. Also, consider embracing them as part of your unique story. Sometimes a little self-love and positive affirmations can go a long way. You’re doing an amazing job, and your body is just as beautiful as the love you have for your kiddos. 💪 If you're interested, here's a link with some more info on stretch mark treatments. Take care!

Ah, the joys and challenges of parenting twins! It's completely normal to feel self-conscious about stretch marks, but remember, they're a testament to the incredible journey your body has been through. I totally get where you're coming from. I've heard good things about both Palmer's Cocoa Butter and Bio Oil, but consistency is key with any treatment. You might also want to explore products with hyaluronic acid or retinoids, as they can help improve skin texture over time.

Beyond products, sometimes it's about embracing what those marks represent. Maybe try some positive affirmations or join a community of moms who celebrate these "tiger stripes" as badges of honor. You're not alone in feeling this way, and it's okay to have these moments. Just remember, you're doing an amazing job, and your little ones adore you just as you are! 🌟