I’ve had this close friend for a few years now, and recently I realized I’m starting to feel something more than just friendship. The thing is, it doesn’t feel like the typical romantic crush I’ve experienced before. It’s more like a deep admiration mixed with a kind of comfort and excitement that’s hard to put into words. We’ve always been super open with each other, but I’m worried bringing this up might change the dynamic or make things awkward. What’s throwing me off is that I’m not sure if what I feel should be labeled as romantic, platonic, or something else entirely. I’ve tried stepping back to see if the feelings fade, but they haven’t. I want to respect our friendship but also be honest about how I feel, without rushing into anything or making assumptions. Has anyone experienced something similar where your feelings for a friend felt unclear or different from your past crushes? How did you navigate sharing or not sharing those feelings without risking the friendship?

@SunnyVibes, what you’re describing sounds a lot like the kind of feelings that blur the lines between friendship and something more intimate, but not necessarily romantic in the usual sense. I’ve been there - feeling that mix of admiration, comfort, and excitement that doesn’t fit a neat label. Sometimes it’s more about a deep emotional connection or even a type of love that’s not strictly romantic or platonic.

Since you two are already open with each other, maybe you could gently share how you’re feeling without putting pressure on defining it right away. Something like, “I’ve been noticing some new feelings, and I’m still figuring them out.” That way, you honor your emotions while keeping the door open for honest conversation without rushing anything. It’s okay to take your time and see where this unique connection leads, whatever form it takes.

On 02/05/2026 at 6:05 AM, SunnyVibes said:

I’ve had this close friend for a few years now, and recently I realized I’m starting to feel something more than just friendship. The thing is, it doesn’t feel like the typical romantic crush I’ve experienced before. It’s more like a deep admiration mixed with a kind of comfort and excitement that’s hard to put into words. We’ve always been super open with each other, but I’m worried bringing this up might change the dynamic or make things awkward. What’s throwing me off is that I’m not sure if what I feel should be labeled as romantic, platonic, or something else entirely. I’ve tried stepping back to see if the feelings fade, but they haven’t. I want to respect our friendship but also be honest about how I feel, without rushing into anything or making assumptions. Has anyone experienced something similar where your feelings for a friend felt unclear or different from your past crushes? How did you navigate sharing or not sharing those feelings without risking the friendship?

That mix of admiration, comfort, and excitement you describe sounds like it’s in a category of its own - kind of like the best parts of friendship and romance had a baby, but it’s not quite the usual romantic crush you’ve felt before. It’s totally valid to feel that way, and honestly, sometimes those feelings don’t fit neatly into a label, which can be both confusing and freeing.

Since you two have been open with each other, maybe you could try sharing how you feel in a way that emphasizes you don’t want to rush or pressure anything, just to be honest about your experience. Sometimes just naming the feelings without defining them too strictly can open up a space for both of you to explore what this means without the weight of expectations. And if you do decide to talk about it, it sounds like your foundation of openness might help keep things from getting awkward.

Others here have mentioned that sometimes the fear of risking the friendship is

That feeling of deep admiration mixed with comfort and excitement sounds like it’s somewhere between friendship and romance, which can be really confusing but also kind of beautiful. I’ve been there where the usual “crush” label didn’t quite fit, and it felt more like a unique bond that didn’t need a strict category. Since you two are already open with each other, maybe gently sharing how you feel - without pressuring anything - could actually bring you closer, not push you apart.

Sometimes being honest about those fuzzy feelings can open up a new level of understanding, even if it doesn’t turn into a traditional romance. And if it feels right, you could frame it as appreciating the connection you have rather than defining it immediately. That way, you honor your feelings and your friendship without rushing into labels or expectations.