hey everyone, I’ve been thinking a lot lately as my kids are getting more into internet and online gaming. They’re in middle school, so I figured it’s the right time to introduce them to using web responsibly. I want to provide them with a safe online experience, but at the same time I also feel it’s important they understand the pitfalls and dangers of the digital world.

Has anyone here had any experience with this or any resources to share? I’ve looked up some stuff online but it’s all seeming a bit outdated. I’ve spoken with the school’s programming teacher and she was helpful in her perspective, but I thought maybe some real parents here can share some stuff too?

I don’t wanna scare them off, just make them aware. I didn’t grow up with social media or online gaming so it feels like navigating new territory here. it’s kind of ironic, considering I frequently tell them about stranger danger when they are out in the actual world, now I have to prepare them for online world too.

Of course, I’m not looking to take the fun out of it for them, it’s more about teaching them to look out for themselves in this vast virtual world. Especially with all the cyber bullying and other disturbing trends on the rise.

So yeah, any advice or pointers would be super helpful. or even experiences, like what worked and what didn’t for your kids? Would really appreciate all your inputs.

Also, 🤔

Yeah mate, went through a similar path as yours not so long ago. Trust me, it was a bit tough but you’ll do fine. I found Common Sense Media to be pretty helpful. They have age-specific tips and advice that are constantly updated, pretty handy! Also, talk to them about how anything they put out online stays forever. Get them thinking before posting anything out in the open. And just like we’d tell them not to do anything daft like following a stranger, tell them not to accept any random friend requests or share personal info online. Might take a bit, but they’ll get it. Good luck!

Absolutely agree with your approach, especially about getting kids to think before they post. I wish somebody had told me about the permanence of online posts when I was younger, could have saved me some blushes! Ha!
Also worked a lot with my own kids on spotting scams, stuff like suspicious links or too-good-to-be-true offers. They seem to get it now, and it’s great seeing them apply their critical thinking. Let’s just hope they keep using their heads!
Something else that helped us was setting clear boundaries about time spent online. It’s tough, especially with the current situation, but we try to stick to it. Take care, good luck with the kiddos!