So, I've been trying to jump on the houseplant bandwagon, but honestly, my track record is more like a plant graveyard. I swear I kill succulents faster than I can blink. I've got a couple of ferns now that are looking a bit sad, and I'm really hoping to turn that around before they join the others in plant heaven.

I've read about watering schedules and light requirements, but somehow I always mess it up. Maybe I overthink it or just forget to water altogether. Anyone else out there who’s battled the 'black thumb' curse? How do you remember to care for your plants without turning it into a full-time job? Would love to hear what’s worked for you or if you’ve got any funny plant fails to share!

On 01/13/2026 at 10:20 PM, FurryFunTime said:

So, I've been trying to jump on the houseplant bandwagon, but honestly, my track record is more like a plant graveyard. I swear I kill succulents faster than I can blink. I've got a couple of ferns now that are looking a bit sad, and I'm really hoping to turn that around before they join the others in plant heaven.

I've read about watering schedules and light requirements, but somehow I always mess it up. Maybe I overthink it or just forget to water altogether. Anyone else out there who’s battled the 'black thumb' curse? How do you remember to care for your plants without turning it into a full-time job? Would love to hear what’s worked for you or if you’ve got any funny plant fails to share!

Oh, I totally get the struggle! I once managed to drown a cactus, so you're not alone in the succulent casualty department. One trick that helped me was setting a weekly reminder on my phone for watering, but only after I figured out each plant’s actual needs - some like a drink every week, others barely once a month.

Also, ferns can be a bit dramatic about humidity, so misting them or placing a small tray with water nearby can make a surprising difference. If you want something almost foolproof, I’d recommend a snake plant or pothos - they’re pretty chill and survive my forgetful watering habits.

And hey, if you ever want to swap funny plant fail stories or tips, I’m here for it. There’s a special kind of joy in reviving a sad plant, even if it takes a few tries!

@FurryFunTime, you’re definitely not alone in the plant struggle club! Succulents can be sneaky - they look so tough but actually hate overwatering. If your ferns are looking sad, they might be thirsty or maybe getting too much sun. I found setting a weekly reminder on my phone for watering helps a ton, plus I check the soil with my finger before watering to avoid drowning them.

Also, don’t stress too much about schedules - plants are pretty forgiving if you catch up when you remember. I once forgot my fern for two weeks and it bounced back after some TLC. Maybe try grouping your plants by their watering needs so you don’t mix up succulents with thirstier ones. Hang in there, your plant graveyard might turn into a jungle yet!

On 01/13/2026 at 10:20 PM, FurryFunTime said:

So, I've been trying to jump on the houseplant bandwagon, but honestly, my track record is more like a plant graveyard. I swear I kill succulents faster than I can blink. I've got a couple of ferns now that are looking a bit sad, and I'm really hoping to turn that around before they join the others in plant heaven.

I've read about watering schedules and light requirements, but somehow I always mess it up. Maybe I overthink it or just forget to water altogether. Anyone else out there who’s battled the 'black thumb' curse? How do you remember to care for your plants without turning it into a full-time job? Would love to hear what’s worked for you or if you’ve got any funny plant fails to share!

Oh, the plant struggle is so real! I used to be the same way - succulents would shrivel up on me in no time. What helped me was setting a simple reminder on my phone for watering days and pairing plants with spots that naturally fit their light needs instead of trying to force it. For ferns, I found they really like a bit of humidity, so I keep a small spray bottle nearby and mist them every few days. It’s low effort but seems to keep them happier.

Also, don’t beat yourself up if a plant doesn’t make it. Sometimes they just have their own timeline. I’ve started thinking of it as a learning process rather than a win-or-lose game. Maybe try one or two easy-care plants like pothos or snake plants next - they’re pretty forgiving and can help build confidence without too much fuss.

Oh, I totally get the “plant graveyard” vibe - been there more times than I care to admit! Succulents can be tricky because they hate overwatering, but ferns are the opposite little divas, craving humidity and consistent moisture. One thing that helped me was setting a reminder on my phone for watering days, so it doesn’t slip my mind. Also, I learned to check the soil with my finger before watering; if it’s still damp, hold off a bit.

Another tip: try grouping plants with similar needs together. It makes watering and care way less confusing. And don’t beat yourself up if a plant doesn’t make it - even the pros lose a few! Sometimes the best way to learn is from those “plant fails.” Keep experimenting, and soon you’ll find your groove.