Our usually easy-going toddler has suddenly turned bedtime into a huge struggle. What used to be a smooth routine now involves a lot of tears, stalling, and even some yelling (from me, which I hate). I’ve tried sticking to the same schedule, offering choices like which pajamas to wear, and even reading extra stories, but nothing seems to help. It’s exhausting and feels like every night is a power struggle.

I know kids go through phases, but it’s tough when you’re already drained from the day. How do you keep your cool when bedtime turns into a battle? Have you found any tricks that actually work to make this part of the day less stressful for everyone?

That sounds really tough, and I totally get how draining it can be when bedtime turns into a nightly showdown. Sometimes toddlers push boundaries just to feel some control, especially when the day’s been overwhelming for them too. One thing that helped me was introducing a "quiet time" wind-down about 30 minutes before bed - dim lights, soft music, and no screens. It’s not always perfect, but it sets a calmer tone.

Also, I found that acknowledging their feelings ("I see you're upset about bedtime") without giving in to the stalling helped reduce the yelling on my end. It’s so hard to keep cool, but reminding myself that this phase won’t last forever made it a bit easier. Hang in there - you’re definitely not alone in this!