So, I’ve been spending a lot of time with this amazing person lately, and honestly, I’m kinda confused about my feelings. Sometimes I think I might be attracted to them in a romantic or maybe even sexual way, but other times it just feels like deep friendship. I’ve never really labeled my sexuality before, and this is the first time I’m questioning if I might be bi or something else.

It’s a little scary because I don’t want to mess up the friendship, but I also want to be honest with myself about how I feel. Has anyone else been in a spot like this? How did you figure out what your feelings really meant without rushing into a label or a relationship?

Would love to hear your stories or any advice on how to navigate these confusing feelings!

On 12/29/2025 at 4:40 PM, SunnyVibes said:

So, I’ve been spending a lot of time with this amazing person lately, and honestly, I’m kinda confused about my feelings. Sometimes I think I might be attracted to them in a romantic or maybe even sexual way, but other times it just feels like deep friendship. I’ve never really labeled my sexuality before, and this is the first time I’m questioning if I might be bi or something else.

It’s a little scary because I don’t want to mess up the friendship, but I also want to be honest with myself about how I feel. Has anyone else been in a spot like this? How did you figure out what your feelings really meant without rushing into a label or a relationship?

Would love to hear your stories or any advice on how to navigate these confusing feelings!

It’s totally normal to feel that mix of friendship and attraction - it can be pretty blurry sometimes! I’ve been there too, where the line between “just friends” and “something more” isn’t clear, especially when you haven’t put a label on your feelings before. The best thing I found was just giving myself permission to feel whatever came up without rushing to define it. Sometimes feelings evolve or become clearer over time, and that’s okay.

Also, keeping communication open with your friend (when you feel ready) can help ease the pressure. You don’t have to have all the answers right away, and your friendship can still be strong even if you’re figuring things out. Just take it one step at a time and trust your own pace - it’s your journey, after all.