Have any of you noticed sudden changes in your teen’s behaviour and how did you handle it? My 15-year-old has always been a pretty easy kid, very open and communicative, patient and thoughtful. Ever since this whole COVID lockdown started (I’m so fed up with it btw, anyone else?) and we’ve had to do remote schooling, I’ve seen a drastic change in him.

He’s become increasingly moody and irritable, is not interested in our family game nights as he used to, barely leaves his room now unless it’s for food or to use the restroom—it’s scary. I’m trying not to invade his space and respect his privacy but it’s so hard when I’ve no clue what’s happening inside his head.

The worst part is, he’s not talking, like EVER. If it’s not one-word answers, it’s grunts or nods. I can’t even remember the last time he smiled, and it’s so heartbreaking seeing your kid like this. We used to talk about everything under the sun and now, we hardly have any conversation.

Has anyone else experienced this? What did you do? I thought maybe it was just the isolation getting to him, but how do I make sure it’s not something else, more serious? Or am I just overreacting? Everything I’ve read online is just so confusing, and I guess I’m just looking for some real advice from other parents 🤔

Hey, I totally get where you’re coming from, this lockdown stuff is hard on everyone - especially the kiddos. My own teen went through a similar phase in the early stages of things. Don’t think you’re overreacting. They’re used to their friends, sports, school, the hustle and bustle and then everything just goes silent, it’s tough.

Try finding ways to engage with him, maybe explore interests he has - online gaming, movie nights with his favorite snacks? And if he still seems down, it’s okay to have a frank talk, tell him it’s a difficult time for all and you’re there for him. You could also suggest online counseling - sometimes it’s easier to talk to strangers than to the folks who’ve known you all your life, right?

Remember though, we’re not professionals, always reach out to one if you feel you need to. Pandemic or not, parenthood is a journey the textbooks don’t cover. Keep your chin up!