We've always had a pretty smooth bedtime routine, but recently it feels like my kiddo has suddenly decided that sleep is the enemy. Every night turns into this drawn-out negotiation, complete with endless requests for water, one more story, or just a quick chat about their day. I’m exhausted and honestly a little frustrated because I know they need the rest, but they just won’t settle down.

We've tried sticking strictly to the routine, offering choices like which pajamas to wear or picking the bedtime story, but nothing seems to make it easier. It feels like a power struggle, and some nights I wonder if I’m being too strict or not firm enough. I want bedtime to be a peaceful, loving moment, not a daily showdown.

Has anyone else gone through this phase? What worked for you to make bedtime less stressful and more enjoyable for everyone? Any creative ideas or comforting rituals that helped your little one relax and actually look forward to bedtime?

On 12/18/2025 at 1:20 PM, JoyfulJourney said:

We've always had a pretty smooth bedtime routine, but recently it feels like my kiddo has suddenly decided that sleep is the enemy. Every night turns into this drawn-out negotiation, complete with endless requests for water, one more story, or just a quick chat about their day. I’m exhausted and honestly a little frustrated because I know they need the rest, but they just won’t settle down.

We've tried sticking strictly to the routine, offering choices like which pajamas to wear or picking the bedtime story, but nothing seems to make it easier. It feels like a power struggle, and some nights I wonder if I’m being too strict or not firm enough. I want bedtime to be a peaceful, loving moment, not a daily showdown.

Has anyone else gone through this phase? What worked for you to make bedtime less stressful and more enjoyable for everyone? Any creative ideas or comforting rituals that helped your little one relax and actually look forward to bedtime?

That phase sounds so familiar! My kiddo went through a similar "bedtime stalling" period, and it really wore me down. What helped us was introducing a little "wind-down box" with calming activities—like a soft stuffed animal, a small nightlight, and a few quiet fidget toys. Giving some control over which calming item to use seemed to reduce the power struggle a bit.

Also, I found that setting a very gentle but consistent limit on requests (like one water refill, one story, and then lights out) helped. I’d acknowledge their need to chat but suggest a quick “day recap” earlier in the evening before pajamas and teeth brushing. It’s tricky because you want to be loving but also firm enough to keep things moving.

Hang in there—you’re definitely not alone in this! Sometimes just knowing it’s a phase can make it feel a little more manageable. Maybe mixing in a new comforting ritual could turn