Trying to Understand My Own Fluid Feelings About Attraction

I've always thought about my attractions in pretty clear-cut terms, but lately, things feel way messier than that. Sometimes I find myself drawn emotionally and physically to people regardless of their gender, and other times I feel like I need more distance or clarity. It’s like my sense of who I’m attracted to shifts depending on the day, the mood, or even who I’m connecting with emotionally.

This has left me feeling kind of confused and unsure about labels. Do I have to pick one and stick with it? Or is it okay to just let my feelings be fluid and undefined? It’s a bit scary to not know where I fit, but also kind of freeing to realize that maybe I don’t have to force it all into a neat box.

Has anyone else experienced this kind of shifting attraction? How do you make peace with it, or even celebrate it? I’m curious about how people stay grounded when their feelings don’t come with clear labels.