Trying to Get a Handle on Budgeting Without Losing My Mind

I've always been a bit all over the place when it comes to money. I know I should be budgeting, saving, and maybe even thinking about side gigs, but somehow it feels overwhelming. I usually just pay the bills as they come and hope there's something left for fun or emergencies. Last month, I realized I had no idea where half my paycheck went, and that freaked me out a bit.

I’m hoping to find some simple ways to track my spending without making it feel like a full-time job. Also, does anyone have tips for starting a small side income that doesn’t take up all your free time? I’m worried about burnout but want to build a little cushion so money stress isn’t always looming.

How do you keep your budget manageable and realistic? What side hustles have worked for you without adding too much stress?