Trying to Get a Handle on Monthly Budget Without Feeling Overwhelmed

I've been trying to keep track of my spending for a few months now, but it feels like every time I think I've got a handle on things, an unexpected bill or expense pops up and throws me off. My rent and utilities take up a big chunk of my income, and then there are groceries, transportation, and little things like coffee or snacks that add up more than I realized. I want to start saving more, even if it's just a small amount each month, but right now it feels like I'm barely breaking even. I've tried using apps and spreadsheets, but I often get discouraged when I see how much I spend on non-essentials. Plus, I don’t have a side hustle yet, and I wonder if that’s something I should look into to boost my savings. Does anyone else feel like budgeting is a constant juggle? How do you stay motivated to stick with it? Also, if you have any simple tricks for managing bills or building a bit of extra income without getting overwhelmed, I’d love to hear them.