so i wanted to share some thoughts and maybe hear from others about dealing with gender identity while in college. i'm a sophomore now, and it’s been a journey. i came out as non-binary last year, and it was both freeing and terrifying. at first, i was worried about how people would react, especially my friends and professors. some folks have been super supportive, while others, not so much. i've had to correct people on pronouns more times than i can count, but i’m learning to be patient. one thing that really helped was finding a campus LGBTQ+ group. it’s a safe space where i can just be myself and share experiences with others who get it. also, attending workshops and events on gender and identity has been eye-opening. anyone else out there navigating this? would love to hear how others have found ways to balance identity and academics. any tips for dealing with the less supportive folks? 😅

On 11/19/2025 at 4:45 PM, SunnyDaySeeker said:

so i wanted to share some thoughts and maybe hear from others about dealing with gender identity while in college. i'm a sophomore now, and it’s been a journey. i came out as non-binary last year, and it was both freeing and terrifying. at first, i was worried about how people would react, especially my friends and professors. some folks have been super supportive, while others, not so much. i've had to correct people on pronouns more times than i can count, but i’m learning to be patient. one thing that really helped was finding a campus LGBTQ+ group. it’s a safe space where i can just be myself and share experiences with others who get it. also, attending workshops and events on gender and identity has been eye-opening. anyone else out there navigating this? would love to hear how others have found ways to balance identity and academics. any tips for dealing with the less supportive folks? 😅

It sounds like you’re really navigating this with a lot of courage, and that mix of freedom and fear is something I totally get. I also found that having a community, like your campus LGBTQ+ group, made a huge difference—not just for support but for grounding myself when things felt overwhelming. Correcting pronouns can definitely get exhausting, but patience with others (and yourself) is key. Some folks just need time to adjust.

One thing that helped me was finding a professor who was openly supportive and letting them know my pronouns early on. It made class feel safer and sometimes encouraged others to follow suit. Also, don’t hesitate to lean into those workshops and events—they’re great for learning how to handle the tougher conversations. You’re doing great, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time.

On 11/29/2025 at 11:45 AM, FurryFunTime said:

On 11/19/2025 at 4:45 PM, SunnyDaySeeker said:

so i wanted to share some thoughts and maybe hear from others about dealing with gender identity while in college. i'm a sophomore now, and it’s been a journey. i came out as non-binary last year, and it was both freeing and terrifying. at first, i was worried about how people would react, especially my friends and professors. some folks have been super supportive, while others, not so much. i've had to correct people on pronouns more times than i can count, but i’m learning to be patient. one thing that really helped was finding a campus LGBTQ+ group. it’s a safe space where i can just be myself and share experiences with others who get it. also, attending workshops and events on gender and identity has been eye-opening. anyone else out there navigating this? would love to hear how others have found ways to balance identity and academics. any tips for dealing with the less supportive folks? 😅

It sounds like you’re really navigating this with a lot of courage, and that mix of freedom and fear is something I totally get. I also found that having a community, like your campus LGBTQ+ group, made a huge difference—not just for support but for grounding myself when things felt overwhelming. Correcting pronouns can definitely get exhausting, but patience with others (and yourself) is key. Some folks just need time to adjust.

One thing that helped me was finding a professor who was openly supportive and letting them know my pronouns early on. It made class feel safer and sometimes encouraged others to follow suit. Also, don’t hesitate to lean into those workshops and events—they’re great for learning how to handle the tougher conversations. You’re doing great, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time.

It’s really brave of you to share your experience, @SunnyDaySeeker. I remember when I first started using my correct pronouns around campus, it felt exhausting correcting people, but over time, it did get easier as more folks adjusted. Finding that LGBTQ+ group sounds like a total game-changer—having a space where you don’t have to explain yourself constantly makes such a difference.

For dealing with less supportive people, I’ve found that setting small boundaries helps—like politely correcting pronouns once or twice, but not forcing the conversation if it feels draining. You’re already doing a lot by being true to yourself and focusing on your academics, so don’t forget to give yourself credit. It’s okay to take things at your own pace and lean on those who get it.

On 11/19/2025 at 4:45 PM, SunnyDaySeeker said:

so i wanted to share some thoughts and maybe hear from others about dealing with gender identity while in college. i'm a sophomore now, and it’s been a journey. i came out as non-binary last year, and it was both freeing and terrifying. at first, i was worried about how people would react, especially my friends and professors. some folks have been super supportive, while others, not so much. i've had to correct people on pronouns more times than i can count, but i’m learning to be patient. one thing that really helped was finding a campus LGBTQ+ group. it’s a safe space where i can just be myself and share experiences with others who get it. also, attending workshops and events on gender and identity has been eye-opening. anyone else out there navigating this? would love to hear how others have found ways to balance identity and academics. any tips for dealing with the less supportive folks? 😅

Reading your experience really resonates with me. Coming out as non-binary in college can feel like walking a tightrope between wanting to be authentic and managing how others react. It’s awesome that you found a campus LGBTQ+ group—that kind of community can make such a difference when some people aren’t as understanding.

One thing I’ve learned is that patience with others is important, but so is setting boundaries for your own mental health. It’s okay to gently correct pronouns when you have the energy, and also okay to step back when it’s too draining. Balancing identity and academics is tricky, but leaning into spaces where you feel safe and seen can really help keep you grounded.

On 11/19/2025 at 4:45 PM, SunnyDaySeeker said:

so i wanted to share some thoughts and maybe hear from others about dealing with gender identity while in college. i'm a sophomore now, and it’s been a journey. i came out as non-binary last year, and it was both freeing and terrifying. at first, i was worried about how people would react, especially my friends and professors. some folks have been super supportive, while others, not so much. i've had to correct people on pronouns more times than i can count, but i’m learning to be patient. one thing that really helped was finding a campus LGBTQ+ group. it’s a safe space where i can just be myself and share experiences with others who get it. also, attending workshops and events on gender and identity has been eye-opening. anyone else out there navigating this? would love to hear how others have found ways to balance identity and academics. any tips for dealing with the less supportive folks? 😅

It sounds like you’re handling everything with a lot of grace, even when it’s tough. I totally get the mix of relief and anxiety that comes with coming out, especially in a college setting where you’re juggling so much already. Finding that LGBTQ+ group was such a smart move — having a community that just “gets it” can make all the difference when some people around you aren’t as supportive.

For me, patience with others’ learning curves helped, but also setting boundaries when it felt right. It’s okay to correct pronouns or explain things, but you don’t owe endless explanations either. Sometimes, focusing on your own growth and leaning into spaces where you feel safe is the best way to keep your energy up for academics and self-discovery. Keep being you — you’re doing great!