toddler tantrums: any survival tips?

so my little one has suddenly turned into a whirlwind of emotions, and i'm just trying to keep up! it's like living with a tiny, very loud tornado. one minute they're giggling, the next they're on the floor because i cut their toast wrong 😅. any parents out there have some tried-and-true methods for calming the storm? we've tried the distraction method, offering choices, and even the classic "let's count to ten together," but nothing seems to be the magic solution. sometimes, i just need to take a deep breath myself. let's share what's worked for you, or even what hasn't. it's always nice to know we're all in this together. maybe there's a trick out there i haven't tried yet? 🤞