So, here’s the deal. My little one has entered the dreaded ‘terrible twos’ stage and I’m drowning here, folks. Tantrums have become a daily occurrence and sometimes I feel like I’m just barely treading water. I’ve got to admit it’s wearing me down a bit. Anyone with a piece of advice, a survival guide, or just words of encouragement during this storm?

It’s not just the public meltdowns which are a public spectacle we have to live every once in a while, but even the home ones are beginning to take a toll on me. Today, we’ve had three major meltdowns - over not wanting to wear socks, not getting to scribble on the kitchen wall with crayons, and wanting to brush her own teeth (it was more of a toothpaste eating session). I mean, I get it, she’s discovering her autonomy and wants to have a say in things, but come on!

I’ve read that trying to reason with them can be helpful, but it’s a lot easier said than done, isn’t it? Trying to have a logical conversation with a two-year-old mid tantrum isn’t exactly a picnic in the park (been there, tried that, earned the t-shirt).

Though I try and keep my cool, there have been moments where I’ve raised my voice and trust me, I know that’s not helpful either. It just escalates the situation 🤔

Phew, poor you! Indeed, the twos can be such a full-on journey. Trust you’re not the only one going through this. Tried a thing called “redirection”? When my little one started stomping her feet, I would quickly distract her with something else she likes – “Oh, let’s go see if the birdies are in the garden?” or “What’s that on the fridge? Isn’t that your favourite magnet?”.

By the way, you’re doing great. Remember, this phase won’t last forever. You’re a wonderful parent for caring enough to seek advice. Hang in there!

Absolutely with you on the redirection trick - works like a charm most times! Another thing I found useful was trying to understand the root of my kid’s tantrum. The tantrums often stemmed from frustration or some sort of discomfort. So, talking it out really helped, just making them feel heard does wonders. And you’re so right, this is just a phase! Before we know it, we’ll be dealing with the threes and their challenges! Funny how they grow so fast, eh? Stay strong, sounds like you’re doing a good job navigating though this!

Totally agree with you! I’ve found that sometimes when my little one is mid-tantrum, what helps is to change the environment – a different room, a toy, or even just stepping outside for a bit. It can sort of “reset” their mood. And yes, this phase passes before we know it… until we hit the next one hahaha. Gosh they do grow up so fast. Hang in there, fellow parent. Kudos to you! We’re all figuring out this rollercoaster ride of parenting together.

Totally on board with the change of environment trick–it really does work wonders, doesn’t it? And yup, just when you think you’re over one hurdle, the next one pops up! Parenting, man, it’s not for the faint of heart. If I could throw in my two cents, I’ve also found that trying to understand the WHY behind tantrums can help to manage them. Is my tot hungry? Tired? Needing some attention? You’ve got this pal, don’t worry! And remember to take some time for yourself too, parenting’s a marathon not a sprint. 👍🙂

Oh, I totally feel you! The 'terrible twos' can be such a rollercoaster. 😅 First off, remember that you’re not alone in this. Many of us have been there, and it does get better. One thing that really helped me was giving my little one choices. It’s amazing how offering a simple choice between two things can make them feel empowered and reduce tantrums. For example, “Do you want to wear the red socks or the blue ones?” Also, try to pick your battles. If it’s not a safety issue, sometimes it’s okay to let them have a little win. And about the public meltdowns, maybe try to find a quiet spot to calm them down or distract them with a favorite toy or snack. Hang in there, you're doing great! 💪

Oh, the 'terrible twos'—a real rollercoaster, right? You're definitely not alone in this. One thing that helped me was picking my battles. Sometimes letting them wear mismatched socks or brush their teeth (even if it means a bit of toothpaste munching) can save your sanity. It's all about choosing what's worth the meltdown. Also, creating a distraction can work wonders. If a tantrum is brewing, try shifting focus with a favorite toy or a silly song.

Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed. We all have those days. Deep breaths and a bit of humor can go a long way. And when you do lose your cool, don’t be too hard on yourself. Parenting is tough, and you're doing your best. Hang in there! 🌟

Oh, the 'terrible twos'—I remember those days! It can feel overwhelming, but you're not alone. One thing that helped me was offering choices to give a sense of control. For example, "Do you want to wear the blue socks or the red ones?" This can sometimes help avoid a meltdown. Also, when it comes to things like brushing teeth, maybe let her have a go first, then say it's your turn to help finish up. It might make her feel like she's in charge while still getting the job done.

Remember, it's okay to take a breather when things get intense. Step away for a moment if you need to collect yourself. You're doing a great job, and this phase will pass. Hang in there! 😊