A Girl?

[Kharnage]

Ok, I'll ask her this week or next week. If you guys have any more advices please tell me
Also, how should I go about asking her to be my girlfriend? Going to the movies is one thing, but being girlfriend and boyfriend is another.

[Gone]

Ok, I'll ask her this week or next week. If you guys have any more advices please tell me
Also, how should I go about asking her to be my girlfriend? Going to the movies is one thing, but being girlfriend and boyfriend is another.

If you guys have fun, it will come out naturally. Just be yourself, and be calm.

[Extasey]

It sounds like you've been friend zoned, then again... my "Buddie" always tells me who's hot and who's ugly.
All girls are different.

If your going to ask her out, I would ask her 1/2 way through a class or something. Don't just go up to her for the soul reason to ask her out, it'll make you look desperate. Just say in the middle of a conversation "do you wanna go see this movie on Friday"
Don't expect an answer, because if you get the opposite you could be really disapointed, or so happy you cant control yourself!

Good luck man.

[Kharnage]

Last night she IM me saying "guess who I'm with" and she said her sister. Then she promptly told me to go on webcam, when I got on webcam she had her webcam turned off, but I could hear her talk. She kept telling me to hold on and stuff then she said she will be back in two minutes and turned off the webcam covo. After two minutes she said she's going to watch a movie with her sister.

Does this mean she was showing her sister how I look or something?

[Gone]

Last night she IM me saying "guess who I'm with" and she said her sister. Then she promptly told me to go on webcam, when I got on webcam she had her webcam turned off, but I could hear her talk. She kept telling me to hold on and stuff then she said she will be back in two minutes and turned off the webcam covo. After two minutes she said she's going to watch a movie with her sister.

Does this mean she was showing her sister how I look or something?

That or she is just bored. Not everything is as deep as it seems.

[Canoris]

So I really like this girl and I don't know if she feels the same way towards me. It always seems as if she likes me and then she does something to deny that she likes me.

She always sits next to me when I have class with her, even if the seats are full near me, she will pull another seat to get next to me. Today she had this chocolate/mint thing and she asked if I wanted one and I said "sure", I thought she was going to put it in my hand to eat it, but she put it up to my mouth and I ate it. She's also very flirty with me and other guys. This is where I am cautious. I don't know if she is just playing with me since she flirts with other guys too. We had plans this week, but she canceled them both. She had this track/race thing during one of the plan days so I didn't really care, but the other plan day I'm pretty sure she was free. We webcam regularly when she isn't busy with homework. We sometimes text each other during classes. She sometimes talk about other guys in school to me saying he's so cute or they look like a movie star or something (she doesn't know the guys).

If I ask her out I don't want her to say no and thus ending our friendship, are these signs that she likes me or is it just that she is a flirty girl?

Let me first start by asking you these questions:
1) Are you 100% sure she is flirting with other guys?
2) If so have you asked around to find out if she is a whore?
3) And if she is a virgin?
4) And if she is serious about a relationship?
5) How much do you like her apart from any physical attraction?

These questions may seem absurd, but to ensure a healthy relationship (or to enter a healthy relationship) you need to be at least aware of the latter questions and be cautious.
To be honest, in all the relationships I have had these questions are what made or broke it. Generally if the last 3 are false then you are going to have a VERY rocky relationship, because:
a) If she has given her cherry to another man, she is bound to fall back to the man she had the most pleasure screwing unless she had a horrific emotional experience with that person.
b) In most cases the latter is only valid unless the 4th is false.
c) When you are attracted to a girls body rather then first being attracted to her emotionally and in compatibility (and let me say, just because a girl is the exact opposite of you does not mean that you cannot be compatible with that girl; I am in a relationship like that now.) then you are bound to break off as soon as the sex and physical attraction diminish.

And then, ask yourself:
1) Why do I like this chick?
2) How does she make me feel (not the head of your dick)?
3) Do I love/like her more and more when I am around her? Or do I seem to lack interest in her more and more every time I am around her?

This, my friend, is the general sketch of the foundation of a healthy relationship with a female.

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Ok, I'll ask her this week or next week. If you guys have any more advices please tell me
Also, how should I go about asking her to be my girlfriend? Going to the movies is one thing, but being girlfriend and boyfriend is another.

Just to touch bases with this matter; it is always different. In the relationship I am in now I told her if I still liked her in a week I would ask her out (she is the one who liked me first). The relationship I lost my virginity to, I asked her out right after gym class. So, between the two they were different. Do whatever comes natural to you.

[Kharnage]

I do sometimes see her flirting with other guys and I'm 100% sure she is a virgin. I like her because she's cute and I like her personality. I feel different (in a good way) when she is talking to me.

[Canoris]

I do sometimes see her flirting with other guys and I'm 100% sure she is a virgin. I like her because she's cute and I like her personality. I feel different (in a good way) when she is talking to me.

Aye, well, to this there must be something deeper then words can express on a machine and figures. A song?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tmjPrdTNxQ0

In that case, I really don't see anything different about you then anyone else who goes into a relationship; the upside is that relationships can change; hopefully for the better in your case. ; )
A word of advice though: don't move too quickly, take your time in this relationship. Relax, breathe, think, and collect. And most importantly enjoy it as if it were the only relationship you ever have. The pain that hopefully will not have to follow will only make you a better person in the long-run.
Good luck.

[Uhriventis]

One advice. Wait until your 20's to date. I got in a five year relationship when I was 14. Waisted a lot of time in my life getting together so young. She cheated on me and that was it. Now I have a new girlfriend (which I promised myself I wouldn't do) but, it just happens that way. Really at your age these things happen. Her hormones are raging as are yours. I believe the best way to solve this problem is to use your brain... Not your head and things will be fine. You might get your feelings hurt you might be an ego boost. I've been around with relationships. Just ask specific questions. I'll answer them, I'm sure I've been there.

[ktmrider530]

Well, first thing i would do is ask her if she want's to "dump truck" if your curious, www.urbandictionary.com search it lol
But really, i'm 17. Been in a relationship for two years, it's great. Don't listen to the people saying to wait until your older to date. Live your life. It's worth it. If you don't you will always think back and say "what if". Who knows, it could end great.