Stuck being a midlife loser, please HELP

[daysowork]

Hello,

Some background, I am a 42 y/o male who used to date a lot. But now I haven't dated in years. I spent years out of the workforce so I could stay with my parents who were dying and now I have woken up one day to see that life has passed me by.

I watch people young enough to be my children now going through the rituals of courtship and marriage and it is pain to me, more pain than I know what to deal with some days.

I go through the motions at work, get reasonably good reviews at a professional job. But I never meet the right person, and life just seems like an empty cycle of work and watching TV.

Plus, where I work there is one eligible girl for every 300 men or so. Please, don't live your life like me if you can help it.

[FeaturedBmx]

Try to find a new hobby and maybe you will meet the right person doing it.

[Brooke]

I agree that you need to get out more. See new places and experience new things to make your life better.

[Callum]

Hi, if you still need support you can PM me for personal support.
I'm here to talk to people who need it and I'm trained in the topic/s which you've submitted.

I'm around almost 24hrs a day and I'd be more than happy to assist you.

Regards,
Callum.

[Clark]

You need to start dating again, if you can afford seeing a psychologist that would help too. You sound depressed and a psychologist would help. By the way, 42 is still plenty young. Hell, you can have good times up till you're 80, and then some!