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freakin hell, thanks for the responses guys. I haven't talked too much to her the past few days, kinda thought less about her, untill she logged on again and when I started talking about the usual saturday evening with friends and asked her if she could come she was like "Nah it's boring, you guys can go but I won't". She's being really strange now. I would love to just tell her but I know the answer right now would definitely be a no. A few weeks ago there was a lot of hope but right now.. It feels like I'm just annoying here. That's my issue. I easily have that feeling. When a girl is not all happy when we're talking, I always feel she's being annoyed by me and feel useless.
Anyway I have learned I shouldn't be such a pussy, not going to be her gay friend anymore. If she wants me, then she does, if not fudge off. There's enough women out there.. However the best ones always being the ones driving me crazy. Wooh.
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I know I should say it and I am gonna do it, but I still don't really see the point of telling her when I know she'll say no. It's not like I am not a 100% sure, she will say no because I'm just a very good friend to her and a couple of other parameters that makes her never be convinced to date me. Same grade, same age, I'm not too big of a guy, she always has the attention and everyone likes her, and I'm a bit more shy. However, a lot less now.
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Just have to say this...
Why does everyone say you loose the friendship once a relationship starts?
Most if not all married people will say there partners is there best friend..
And its true... Worst enemy at the same time some days but none the less.....
Long and short... Go for it mate.
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My brother just broke up with his GF, who also was his best female friend ones. Now they don't have any contact anymore whatsoever. That's what I'm afraid of. I'm also scared her knowing I like her would create a tension in our friendship and I don't want to eventually seperate or just have to hang out with her less :L
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Okay just WOW. Why is it that everytime it seems she is interested in other guys but me, and those guys ALWAYS being close friends or people I just got to know a lot better. Like first it seemed she was all into my best friend. Seemed not be so but now everyone is talking about her and this other guy I met a couple of weeks ago and we got very good friends, while a few weeks ago it was all about me and her. She does not seem interested in me at all anymore and barely talks to my in school. Really WTF am I doing wrong everytime. It seems like I get boring to every girl after a while .-.
