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#11
Just remember, no matter how bad life may seem, there's always someone out in the world in a much worse situation than you. You are privileged, enjoy life and don't waste it by doing something so stupid as cutting. Take a look at your life, and then compare it to those who live in Palestine or Ethiopia or even any of the slums all over the world, things can be much worse man, just take what you have and use it to your advantage.
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#12
Though I cannot see why people cut themselves, I will try to help as best as possible.
First, resist the urge to cut yourself. It doesn't bring any good at all. Second, you said you like being on the computer, so why not learn about what makes it tick. Learn something like a programming language or just play games. Just do not cut yourself.
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#13
Don't cut yourself bro its really not worth it. Just think about all of the people that love you in your life man. Use your computer as a getaway from the world, do things on here that you wouldn't do in real life. Hopefully this helps man. Best of luck.
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#14
(01-28-2012, 01:29 PM)๖ۣۜNitrous Wrote: Though I cannot see why people cut themselves, I will try to help as best as possible.
First, resist the urge to cut yourself. It doesn't bring any good at all. Second, you said you like being on the computer, so why not learn about what makes it tick. Learn something like a programming language or just play games. Just do not cut yourself.

People cut for pain, pain relieves depression for some amount of time.
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#15
I can relate to this a lot, actually. Back when I was younger, I didn't have that great of a childhood. I won't get into details because that isn't the point I'm trying to get across to you. However, cutting to me is an addiction and I still do it when I get really down, or just had a really rough time. It helps me get through it. Many people do say that it's a bad thing to do, that is true. But so is smoking and drinking too much.

I'm not telling you that you should cut because things suck for you, there ARE other ways around it. Like just bleeding your heart out to other people who can either relate to you, or just someone close to you and that will listen well. I don't want people to take the same path as me and keep doing it, it's actually dumb but I can't help it. For you though, I would suggest you trying to take a positive aspect on life. I look at your profile and saw that you are 15, if that is true then you have a lot of time to fix this and get on the clean, right path to a healthy life. Don't be scared to get away from this darkness that is starting to consume you. You need to before it's too late, I know without a shadow of a doubt that I waited a bit too long to get it out of my system completely. I just hope you actually take what I've been typing so far to heart and really sit down and ponder it. No one is perfect, no one HAS it perfect and most importantly of all, you CAN change anything in your life that you don't like. You just need to dig deep and get yourself moving.

(01-28-2012, 06:55 PM)NekoChan Wrote: People cut for pain, pain relieves depression for some amount of time.

Not always, some people do it because it's an addiction, like myself. To those who don't cut, they don't understand it. But in the OP's situation, that would be exactly what it is, I believe.
"Don't treat life as a losing battle, but as an ongoing challenge."
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#16
(01-28-2012, 12:56 PM)BreShiE Wrote: Just remember, no matter how bad life may seem, there's always someone out in the world in a much worse situation than you. You are privileged, enjoy life and don't waste it by doing something so stupid as cutting. Take a look at your life, and then compare it to those who live in Palestine or Ethiopia or even any of the slums all over the world, things can be much worse man, just take what you have and use it to your advantage.

Well. So what you are saying is that I can never have it bad, because people have it worse than me? That is idiotic. I can't be sad, because somewhere in the world, someone is getting tortured?
(01-28-2012, 06:51 PM)Animalpak Wrote: Don't cut yourself bro its really not worth it. Just think about all of the people that love you in your life man. Use your computer as a getaway from the world, do things on here that you wouldn't do in real life. Hopefully this helps man. Best of luck.

I've used my computer as a getaway for the last 5 years. When I go to bed, I can't think of anything productive I have done.
(01-28-2012, 10:45 PM)Hуѕтєяιa X™ Wrote: I can relate to this a lot, actually. Back when I was younger, I didn't have that great of a childhood. I won't get into details because that isn't the point I'm trying to get across to you. However, cutting to me is an addiction and I still do it when I get really down, or just had a really rough time. It helps me get through it. Many people do say that it's a bad thing to do, that is true. But so is smoking and drinking too much.

I'm not telling you that you should cut because things suck for you, there ARE other ways around it. Like just bleeding your heart out to other people who can either relate to you, or just someone close to you and that will listen well. I don't want people to take the same path as me and keep doing it, it's actually dumb but I can't help it. For you though, I would suggest you trying to take a positive aspect on life. I look at your profile and saw that you are 15, if that is true then you have a lot of time to fix this and get on the clean, right path to a healthy life. Don't be scared to get away from this darkness that is starting to consume you. You need to before it's too late, I know without a shadow of a doubt that I waited a bit too long to get it out of my system completely. I just hope you actually take what I've been typing so far to heart and really sit down and ponder it. No one is perfect, no one HAS it perfect and most importantly of all, you CAN change anything in your life that you don't like. You just need to dig deep and get yourself moving.


Not always, some people do it because it's an addiction, like myself. To those who don't cut, they don't understand it. But in the OP's situation, that would be exactly what it is, I believe.

"But in the OP's situation, that would be exactly what it is, I believe."

Exactly what do you mean by that?

And, I know my body very well, I used to know what was wrong all the time, and stuff.. Now has anyone read the thread I linked to?
It would probably be the thing dragging me down, not probably, it is. Not easy to get back up, even if I have the facts straight, they just don't work for me.
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#17
Hurting yourself is never really the correct option to chose from when dealing with lives problems.
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#18
(01-28-2012, 10:45 PM)Hуѕтєяιa X™ Wrote: Not always, some people do it because it's an addiction, like myself. To those who don't cut, they don't understand it. But in the OP's situation, that would be exactly what it is, I believe.

I was talking about people who rarely cut, but do it when they feel really down.

But I know what you mean, I used to cut myself too for I had a addiction to pain. But now I am perm. scarred with things I don't want anybody to see.

SO OP don't freakin cut or I will behead you.
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#19
Not at all, you misread my post, I was saying sure you have it bad, but just try to be happy for with what you've got as it could always be worse. Cutting yourself is pathetic and your idiotic responces to people just trying to help out leads me to believe you're just craving attention.
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#20
(01-30-2012, 08:46 AM)BreShiE Wrote: Not at all, you misread my post, I was saying sure you have it bad, but just try to be happy for with what you've got as it could always be worse. Cutting yourself is pathetic and your idiotic responces to people just trying to help out leads me to believe you're just craving attention.

I hope you are not talking about me, you dipshit.

I am just saying what happened to me, so he would change his mind.
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