10-19-2011, 09:50 AM
ok!! I am a council member of a society.
There are 2 girls in the society that are pretty arrogant & over smart.
They try to override me.
For example:-
i askd dem" Ok ..r u gals committee members?"
there rply :-"If v hadn't been we wudn't hav been sitting here!!"
Hw rude!!
Ok... wen two ppl present at the meeting started to have a heated discussion , i told them to chill.
Den one of d girl out of dose two said :" u get scared wen sm1 starts shouting. A society is not run like this"
I mean how rude . wat is dere problem??
I had be lying if i said it did not effect me.. I actually started stumbling over my words & i think i m a bit scared of them both...
If dis fear of them persists, dey r going to walk all over me... i knw dis...
Pls sm1 gv me some advice to handle them...
Dis is really taking a toll on my confidence...
i m actually dreading them...tell me hw to get rid of dis fear nd hw to handle them....one of them is pretty agressive......in my haste to defend myself my words overlap as i m speaking pretty fast in anger nd outrage
help me ppl please...
i m a girl myself!!
There are 2 girls in the society that are pretty arrogant & over smart.
They try to override me.
For example:-
i askd dem" Ok ..r u gals committee members?"
there rply :-"If v hadn't been we wudn't hav been sitting here!!"
Hw rude!!
Ok... wen two ppl present at the meeting started to have a heated discussion , i told them to chill.
Den one of d girl out of dose two said :" u get scared wen sm1 starts shouting. A society is not run like this"
I mean how rude . wat is dere problem??
I had be lying if i said it did not effect me.. I actually started stumbling over my words & i think i m a bit scared of them both...
If dis fear of them persists, dey r going to walk all over me... i knw dis...
Pls sm1 gv me some advice to handle them...
Dis is really taking a toll on my confidence...
i m actually dreading them...tell me hw to get rid of dis fear nd hw to handle them....one of them is pretty agressive......in my haste to defend myself my words overlap as i m speaking pretty fast in anger nd outrage
help me ppl please...
i m a girl myself!!