Am I weird

[ReasonableLogic]

I don't know what love is, so I was just asking btw.

I've never been in love, I've been in lust, or maybe had a connection with someone but I don't think its love. Maybe love is an illusion, ever thought of that?

[JDBar]

I'm going to be somewhat rude here:

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If you disagree with me, then simply ignore my post. I don't feel like debating about my opinion.

You sound like a fool for trying to make this relationship work. You sound desperate. If you are in love with a person, you would want to protect them and you certainly wouldn't want them going around sleeping with other people. What you are explaining doesn't sound like love at all. You're putting yourself in a miserable messed up relationship with a girl who obviously doesn't really care about you as much as she claims. My recommendation is to end it and forget her. There are girls in this world who actually have some sense. When a girl cares about you, or loves you, she doesn't go sleeping with other guys. You are being walked on. She is not worth loving. Imagine relationships kind of like an apple tree; the ripest sweetest apples are at the top and are hard to reach, and the bitter apples are at the bottom but are easily within your grasp. This girl is on the lowest branch of the tree. Stop eating the bitter apples, and reach higher. You'll find out what love is supposed to be.

[Hydrocodone]

Ye you should watch out you dont wana catch any thing.

[Dεlluzion]

Dude, she has sex with other guys. Don't you feel slightly bothered about this?

[Green Bay]

I don't really think that it is weird, it might not be the social norm, but it is fine.

[Bяian ♪]

I think it is weird Neko, and I think you should have way more self-respect. I used to think like this, I had a gf who was absolutely gorgeous but I knew for a fact she flirted and probably slept with other guys yet I was her bf, I was the one holding her hand and taking her on dates so I didn't care. Problem is although you might not know it, people are talking behind your back, laughing at you. She will be laughing at you as well with her friends knowing you will always be their for her no matter what she does. If your not going to dump her what I think you should do is the same thing she is doing. Flirt with other girls, chat them up, make it seem like if you lost her you would still have plenty of options. I think this could help her commit to you and you alone. Good luck !

[Green Bay]

I think it is weird Neko, and I think you should have way more self-respect. I used to think like this, I had a gf who was absolutely gorgeous but I knew for a fact she flirted and probably slept with other guys yet I was her bf, I was the one holding her hand and taking her on dates so I didn't care. Problem is although you might not know it, people are talking behind your back, laughing at you. She will be laughing at you as well with her friends knowing you will always be their for her no matter what she does. If your not going to dump her what I think you should do is the same thing she is doing. Flirt with other girls, chat them up, make it seem like if you lost her you would still have plenty of options. I think this could help her commit to you and you alone. Good luck !

She isn't necesarily talking about him behind his back. I honestly don't think that it is a big deal. I think polygamy is how humans are supposed to be.

[Pulse]

You, love her? I'm not sure you understand that meaning. If you love her, you will not other guys touch her. But, if this is just a play, by all means, play her. If not, you are weird.

[xMan]

I Personally would of dumped her for sleeping with other guys....

[Bяian ♪]

She could be tho, that's what girls do, they talk about boys, relationships etc. If she know's he doesn't care what she does she will be telling her friends that and they could be like..'omg your so lucky you get to flirt with any boy you want knowing your boyfriend will still welcome you back with open arms'. I think as men and humans we all deserve better than that.