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01-09-2011, 04:17 AM
(This post was last modified: 01-09-2011, 07:45 AM by Skill.)
@OP, I've already answered in this thread,
but I'll say it again.
Face her and tell her how you feel.
Don't say that she's fat or w/e because that'll break her heart. (You never know that she might think she isn't.)
Just go with the good old, "I lìke you.. but not in thàt way.. I do want to stay friends though!"
That should give her hope, even if she now knows that you don't love her!
Good luck!
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you know i would not date a fat chick but if you lead her on a little bit i am sure you could get some sick back massages and stuff before you end things and mabye still be friends afterwards
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Whatever you do, don't hurt her feelings. If you don't want to talk to her, ignore her. If you have feelings for her, pursue them.
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I thought I replied to this....or maybe its just me...
You need to keep on talking to her so it won't hurt her feeling. The guilt will get to you if you ignore her because she is just nice. Let her down easy whenever she tries to flirt with you by saying something like "We're friends".
Hope she can get the picture that you only see her as a friend. I hope she doesn't take it to the extreme where she just won't stop texting or calling you.
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alot of guys would die to be in your position
dont be a pus. go out with her fudge her give her what she wants
slowly getting better
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No one would die to be in my position.
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Over weight chicks are never good,
Not just looks but a little desperate :/ not to troll
just from what ive seen.
But OT : If you have no emotion for her express that to her.
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Thanks guys I made it clear I do not like her.
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The only way to get rid of a "gernade" is to make up situations to where you hint to her that you have feelings for another person. She will eventually get the idea that you are pursusing a relationship with someone else and just talk to you as a friend. White lies never hurt anyone, if anything your helping her out by not trying to hurt her in a big way.
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Don't show any type of feeling, she might be testing if you do have feelings for her. So act normal, and she'll give up.