Asking a girl out -help

[Resistance]

Ok so I have never had a girlfriend (I have had friends that are girls but not a gf) Never got man enough to ask a girl out, I already let one slip(ish) and really want to ask this new girl out, but I really don't know what to say. I am the nervous kinda guy but confident, if I planned ahead. How should I act and when should it be the appropriate time to ask her? I think I need to get over the crappy denial barrier thats pushing me back lol. Help please...

[Peter L]

Never "plan ahead." When I was in 6th grade and asked a girl out for the first time I tried that, too. But when it actually happens you realize that it didn't go as planned...in a good way. Just roll with the flow, and tbh go hang out with her instead of asking people online.

[Resistance]

Never "plan ahead." When I was in 6th grade and asked a girl out for the first time I tried that, too. But when it actually happens you realize that it didn't go as planned...in a good way. Just roll with the flow, and tbh go hang out with her instead of asking people online.

I'm on winterbreak, don't have her number, but have her facebook. I can't really hang with her, I like to ask her in person. Not electronically.

[SleepyTroll]

I'm on winterbreak, don't have her number, but have her facebook. I can't really hang with her, I like to ask her in person. Not electronically.

Ask her for her number through facebook. Send her an inbox message asking for her number at the same time giving yours.

[Orgasmic]

Ask for her number via FB.

[Peter L]

Facebook interactions come off as a creeper.

Wait until the week is over.

[Resistance]

Facebook interactions come off as a creeper.

Wait until the week is over.

Exact same thing I was thinking. Thanks guys for all your help~!!!

[Swift Swim]

I'm on winterbreak, don't have her number, but have her facebook. I can't really hang with her, I like to ask her in person. Not electronically.

Ask her over FB for her number, text her a bit, then suggest meeting up to hang out.

Works for me.

[Peter L]

Ask her over FB for her number, text her a bit, then suggest meeting up to hang out.

Works for me.

Then you talked to some weird girls. Asking a girl for her number out of the blue does not work.

Ok, it works. But she will think of you as a creeper.

[Swift Swim]

Then you talked to some weird girls. Asking a girl for her number out of the blue does not work.

Ok, it works. But she will think of you as a creeper.

Obviously not out of the blue

The first message 'Number please?'


Work up to it.
+Yeah, it does work though. Even if it can be seen as rude or weird - It still works.