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[how to] deal with not fitting in [how to]
#31
(10-03-2010, 11:35 AM)R4GE_Xy-Cliche Wrote: You are like i am. It will actually help you trust me, Find you a group of friends you can be yourself around and stick with them, you will slowly start becoming yourself again.

my group was the Metal heads / punks. I met alot of them at concerts and school. Find an activity you like and start hanging out with people that like that activity to.

That's the way i already kinda am. I mean what you stated below is what i am. If you put me alone then im not going to talk, but if you put me with people that i trust and know then i will. Tongue
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#32
That is understandable, are you a very trusting person or quite the opposite where you trust very few people? as i said though in the end your best bet is figure out how you were when you were happy, and go back to that. Dont give a second thought or a second look to what people say about you, if it really does get on your nerves then stand up for yourself, im not saying fight, i do not condone fighting except when absoultely neccsary which is when they throw the first blow. Just tell them that if they dont like who you are , or the way you look they can look away and go suck a d*ck (maybe to extreme but in the end this is what i used)
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#33
(10-03-2010, 01:19 PM)R4GE_Xy-Cliche Wrote: That is understandable, are you a very trusting person or quite the opposite where you trust very few people? as i said though in the end your best bet is figure out how you were when you were happy, and go back to that. Dont give a second thought or a second look to what people say about you, if it really does get on your nerves then stand up for yourself, im not saying fight, i do not condone fighting except when absoultely neccsary which is when they throw the first blow. Just tell them that if they dont like who you are , or the way you look they can look away and go suck a d*ck (maybe to extreme but in the end this is what i used)

I mean I'm happy with myself, but i would much rather be very happy. Haha.
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#34
I understand, just use my previous advice and you should do fine
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#35
(10-03-2010, 02:22 PM)R4GE_Xy-Cliche Wrote: I understand, just use my previous advice and you should do fine

Ok, i will. Thank you for the advice Smile
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#36
Very sensible and mature indeed.
I'm loving this guide, thanks for posting it.
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#37
You are very welcome, I decided to make it because being teenage as i am, (14) i thought what age group better to make a guide on fitting in?
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