If your ex told you she was pregnant

[Sapora]

This question is for guys. But ladies, feel free to share your experience on male reactions to the situation below.

You and your ex plan on having a child, but you decide to leave her BEFORE finding out the news that she is pregnant. Since you are no longer together would you want to know what decision she made: abortion, adoption, single parenting?

For example... "Yes, I want to know that she decided on adoption or single parenting... but I rather her keep me in the dark about the pregnancy if she is getting an abortion."

Thanks!

[Dcrac23]

This question is for guys. But ladies, feel free to share your experience on male reactions to the situation below.

You and your ex plan on having a child, but you decide to leave her BEFORE finding out the news that she is pregnant. Since you are no longer together would you want to know what decision she made: abortion, adoption, single parenting?

For example... "Yes, I want to know that she decided on adoption or single parenting... but I rather her keep me in the dark about the pregnancy if she is getting an abortion."

Thanks!

Your posts continue to make no sense. So my x tells me she's pregnant I would ask to get a Maternity test done, A to see if she is really pregnant and a blood test to see if it's mine. I would rather take care of the child than put it up for adoption or abortion.

[Opposite]

This kind of decision is related to;
Age
Financial status
Maturity (Are you ready?)
etc.
And if you are the father, talk to her about it, not us.

[Hawkins]

If it's your kid, then you shouldn't only want to know what she decided, but demand to talk about it, and decide together. It's yours after all.

[Eve]

Hello, Sapora. I read all your posts to understand the context of your question. You are 20+ and recently single, but you are still undergoing conversion to Catholicism which you started while with your boyfriend.

I assume that he left you, and you are still hurting. Are you asking this question because you suspect (or hope) that you are pregnant?

If a pregnancy is confirmed, be prepared to face some suspicion from your ex-boyfriend. A paternity test may be necessary to convince him, to proceed the discussion with you. The process of pregnancy cannot guarantee a stable relationship, however the morally correct action for him will be to participate and support your decision in the matter.

[unuser0910]

I would want to help her bring it up ? wouldnt be a man if a didnt

[NekoChan]

I would ask her, if its my child.

Yes or no, I would get back together with her and raise the child.