When do you tell a woman you love her

[Dcrac23]

At what point in time do you tell a woman you love her? I'd say a month or two. What you guys and gals think.

[Omniscient]

When you're certain you do. Even better if you think she does too.

[Sam]

Whenever the feeling strikes. If you truly feel it then don't hold back. The sooner you put it out there the better.

[Dcrac23]

OK well then let me ask you 2 guys this. Do you guys believe in Love at First Sight?

[Swat Runs Train]

I really want to say to get her panties off but I shall restrain myself.

If you feel like this relationship could be "the one", then let her know what's up, there is no time frame for love.

[Untouch]

I really want to say to get her panties off but I shall restrain myself.

wtf was that to do with this?

Anyway I tell my gf everytime I see her I love her as I do.
I have known her since I was like 4 and we have been best friends since (14 years).
I started going out with her about 2 1/2 years ago, I said to her I loved her even before I went out with her so I can't really answer your question.

But if you truly do love her you can say it in a serious way.
If you say it within a month of going out it may freak her out, unless it wasn't in a serious way.

As for love at first sight I can't really answer that as I first saw my girlfriend when I was 4 and I didn't know what love was then.

[Swat Runs Train]

I was joking around saying I would say I love you to get her panties off, sorry if you misunderstood.

[Dcrac23]

No I'm not saying she's my girlfriend or nothing. I'm saying to a girl you've known for about 4-5 months now, but really Really like. You don't know a whole lot about her. Just that I work with her she's a Nurse makes more money than I do, and she's very beautiful and actually would give a damn about me I think. OK let me rephrase this. There is this nurse I like named Mindy I have worked with her about 4-5 months now, and Since day 1 of laying eyes on her I knew right then and there I wanted to be with her. She has alot of relationship trouble and has been married 3 times and has a 6 year old daughter, She's about 2 years older than I am and makes about 10k more than I do a year. I sent her flowers the other day telling her just how much she means to me, She knows I like her and she loved the flowers. I keep on shooting her emails but I'm very cautious about what I say since our Boss reads our E-mails. I don't have her phone number or anything like that. We talk all the time at work when she gets a chance and she's always staring at me and smiling. Now me and my fiance just broke up, So my heart is healing right now I don't want her (Mindy) to be just someone to help me get over Leah my ex fiance. I really want to date her take care of her and her child and help support them. Now take into consideration I really don't like kids that much but something about her child just draws my attention. I really wanna ask her out on a Date but I am stumped about what kind of date I would like to ask her out on. Option A. The State Fair starts next weds, but she is having breast surgery b/c one of her implants busted. Option B. This weekend Take her to a Nice Fancy Dinner and then a Movie. Option C. if the weather is nice enough this weekend take her and her daughter out on my boat for a nice joyride. Or Option D. Take her and her daughter out to lunch.

[Josheywhat]

You say "The 3 words" when you know you mean it. Saying it otherwise would be pointless.

[Dcrac23]

You say "The 3 words" when you know you mean it. Saying it otherwise would be pointless.

Well Duh. That's not about meaning it or not meaning it of course you'd mean it.