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09-17-2010, 11:40 AM
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Well personally, I'm glad that she's "improving" but you can't change a person. Actually why change them, let them be who they are, so good luck dude. In my experiences with women(I'm 18 so I guess its not that much but I'm pretty hip) just fudge em, thats all they're for, well in my case. Maybe down the line I'll settle with someone I could tolerate to help with financial purposes and hey she might even be a good companion, maybe even have kid, but women fudge your whole plans up. Whatever you aspire to be in life, all that gets thrown out the window as soon as you commit yourself, its all about her, the bills, unwanted expenses that never end up benefiting you, the kid(s), your stuck working at place you don't like, debt, and yea you get the point... some how you always get fudged, I don't know any male in my mother or fathers family, even their friends that isn't somehow fudged(yes I was the nosy kid playing gamecube or sitting down reading magazines at the barbershop, prentending I didn't know anything when ever the committed guys would talk). The American Dream is great ain't it?
I know that this doesn't pertain to you now cause your like what 15? But remember what I just posted, it might be helpful and somewhat selfish, but all you got is yourself right? Anyway if you love her thats all that counts(what ever love means, I'm usually always in lust)
Birth: beginning of knowledge.
Institutionalized education: why?
More institutionalized education: why?..
Higher learning: wtf??
Society: who are they?
Work: I get it sorta but... why?
Materialism: cool.. but uh is that all?..
Am I personally going to subject myself?: no. am i forced? yes..
Friends/fam: ohh, you exist too..
Science/religion: yea......so...you say you have answers..correct?
Spirituality/nature: hmm..intriguing.
In the meantime: fudge, sleep, eat, other..
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09-17-2010, 04:45 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-17-2010, 04:46 PM by NekoChan.)
No, I'm soon 18, so pretty much the same age as you ; )
But I don't have any dreams or anything like that.
I don't want much from life, so I live my life helping others.
(09-17-2010, 09:06 AM)Dcrac23 Wrote: Shutup Most of us did read the topic and the whole thread. It's a support thread People are supporting the topic and some are trying to help him. 98% of the people who posted read the entire thread. We just have different views than others and some things are interpreted incorrectly.
I was the OP you moron and I already made it thro the first post's problems, I updated this thread, read my last post here.
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Haha dude I have to say you are one of few who would be fine with that. I'd be over there kicking the crap out of that guy. I think if you really don't care then don't ask for peoples opinions on the internet, do what you want.
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(09-19-2010, 06:42 AM)Flawless Wrote: Haha dude I have to say you are one of few who would be fine with that. I'd be over there kicking the crap out of that guy. I think if you really don't care then don't ask for peoples opinions on the internet, do what you want.
What would kicking somebody's ass help in that situation?
And she dumped me, the reason was that she likes somebody else.
But I kinda think she made that reason up, I have my reasons why to think like that.
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(09-19-2010, 02:53 PM)NekoChan Wrote: What would kicking somebody's ass help in that situation?
And she dumped me, the reason was that she likes somebody else.
But I kinda think she made that reason up, I have my reasons why to think like that. What i mean by that is I'm not like you. I guess thats why you don't understand. I would not be fine with my girlfriend having sex with another guy. I would be pissed off. If that is the reason she gave you then it is most likely true.
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09-20-2010, 06:18 AM
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She doesn't love you and Doesn't care about your relationship let the chick go. Find someone else who will actually take your relationship seriously. Don't think about it man just move on.
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(09-19-2010, 02:53 PM)NekoChan Wrote: What would kicking somebody's ass help in that situation?
And she dumped me, the reason was that she likes somebody else.
But I kinda think she made that reason up, I have my reasons why to think like that.
Wasted effort huh? Don't feel bad I'm 99.9% sure the next guy is gonna go through the same crap you went through. So she fudged other guys within the month or so you were together then on top of that she dumped you? That would personally ruin my ego. Good luck on the next one, make sure she's worth it.
Birth: beginning of knowledge.
Institutionalized education: why?
More institutionalized education: why?..
Higher learning: wtf??
Society: who are they?
Work: I get it sorta but... why?
Materialism: cool.. but uh is that all?..
Am I personally going to subject myself?: no. am i forced? yes..
Friends/fam: ohh, you exist too..
Science/religion: yea......so...you say you have answers..correct?
Spirituality/nature: hmm..intriguing.
In the meantime: fudge, sleep, eat, other..
The sum of it all: we dk.
Death: the end.
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Well it's very unhealthy.
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Well, we are together again now :3
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(09-08-2010, 06:58 AM)NekoChan Wrote: My girl is having sex with other boys, like second time in our relationship.
Been together for a month or so.
Well she is having sex with others and idc
Is that weird?
When she is trying to be honest with me and tells me these things, I only laugh
But I really love her and I don't think sex is a big deal, its all natural lol.
i hope you realize she is walking all over you...whether you care or not
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