My advice is simple. Look at a few of the things you're saying. Look at the way YOU see your life. Read them aloud to yourself.
Now question that the most likely reason you're feeling so low is simply because the perspective you have of everything your life entails has been narrowed. You're one of the many people telling your one dramatic story and how your life has turned into getting over this one event. Now your life is becoming more about your past than your future.
I’m not going to be harsh and say “it happens to everyone, deal with it”, but I will be harsh and say this... if you’re thinking of killing yourself – I wont stop you. People that give up before truly trying receive no sympathy from someone like me. I’m sure there’s a nice tall building somewhere housing a nice new IT company that could do with some press attention from some ‘nobody’ jumping from their roof.
Just take a look at this moment in your life. This moment right now. Decide if you really have lived it all for nothing. Decide if you really want to continue being a ‘nobody’, then make your choice. People tend to not know how truly strong they really are until they’ve hit rock bottom and had to build themselves back up again. Trust me, I know. Most people don’t really even want their lives fixed or their problems solved, their dramas or their distractions taken away. Because what would they have left? Just the big scary unknown. Yes you have a lot of negatives, but you also listed a bunch of positives in your life too. You just need to read between the lines to see them.
It’s your choice how you’re influenced by this advice. Just know that nobody will get you anywhere but you.
(07-20-2010, 09:53 PM)Ricks123 Wrote: I can't make a life for myself. I have no savings. no friends. no credit. im stretched beyond my means. I might as well be behind bars doing 25 to life cause I feel trapped.
(07-20-2010, 09:53 PM)Ricks123 Wrote: I am financially burdened. I have no gf women don't find me attractive. I have one true hobby that I love but cannot afford. I have one ONE friend, and last but not least I am stuck living at home.
Now question that the most likely reason you're feeling so low is simply because the perspective you have of everything your life entails has been narrowed. You're one of the many people telling your one dramatic story and how your life has turned into getting over this one event. Now your life is becoming more about your past than your future.
I’m not going to be harsh and say “it happens to everyone, deal with it”, but I will be harsh and say this... if you’re thinking of killing yourself – I wont stop you. People that give up before truly trying receive no sympathy from someone like me. I’m sure there’s a nice tall building somewhere housing a nice new IT company that could do with some press attention from some ‘nobody’ jumping from their roof.
Just take a look at this moment in your life. This moment right now. Decide if you really have lived it all for nothing. Decide if you really want to continue being a ‘nobody’, then make your choice. People tend to not know how truly strong they really are until they’ve hit rock bottom and had to build themselves back up again. Trust me, I know. Most people don’t really even want their lives fixed or their problems solved, their dramas or their distractions taken away. Because what would they have left? Just the big scary unknown. Yes you have a lot of negatives, but you also listed a bunch of positives in your life too. You just need to read between the lines to see them.
It’s your choice how you’re influenced by this advice. Just know that nobody will get you anywhere but you.