07-11-2010, 11:42 AM
Sometimes you just have to let go. If you know for certain that things are only going to get worse if you decide to stay with her then I recommend ending your relationship. The pain that you go through now will not be anywhere near as much as the pain you'll go through further down the line. If you are worried about her cheating on you then that could cause problems between you two. A relationship revolves around trust, if you don't trust her, or she doesn't trust you then that's not going to go down well. The worse part is letting go. I don't think you want to let her go but you think you have to deep down. I hope you choose the right decision for the both of you. It's up to you what you choose to do. I'm sure your family would eventually forgive you for having sex at your age. They've probably been in a similar situation some time in there life. If you do decide to stay with your girlfriend then talk things over with your parents. Get them to understand your situation and if you're in love, tell them that nothing is going to tear you two apart. They should respect your decision. Afterall, it's your life, not theirs.