06-20-2010, 06:03 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-20-2010, 06:04 PM by Detective RooTz.)
Well, I do want to start off with hope you luck with your baby boy/girl. And welcome to SF.
I've read the whole story and I've got the following from it.
~You obv want a loving and caring BF. That will love and support you and the baby.
~You want him to stay home with you and not hang out with the bad friends.
Well, I would suggest you tell him this.
"Honey, I would like for you to support me and this baby and not fight. I don't care if you hang out with your friends just let me know and do not get into trouble when your with them."
And seeing he used to be a drug addict if he has serious problems with the drug problems then suggest counseling for it.
However, y'all should trust each other enough to go out with friends regardless of you telling the other person about it. That's what a relationship is about. Trust and love.
I would also suggest sitting down and talking to him about his friends. If he's going to support you with this baby neither of you really have time to hang with friends, do drugs etc. A baby is a high priority. So have him a talk about a few of these things and then tell us how it went.
*I'm giving real useful information here unlike some of the other posts.
If there's anymore information you would like on this subject. Please send me a PM and I will talk with you about it.
You can send me a pm by clicking "pm" button under my name.
Your welcome,
Detective RooTz
I've read the whole story and I've got the following from it.
~You obv want a loving and caring BF. That will love and support you and the baby.
~You want him to stay home with you and not hang out with the bad friends.
Well, I would suggest you tell him this.
"Honey, I would like for you to support me and this baby and not fight. I don't care if you hang out with your friends just let me know and do not get into trouble when your with them."
And seeing he used to be a drug addict if he has serious problems with the drug problems then suggest counseling for it.
However, y'all should trust each other enough to go out with friends regardless of you telling the other person about it. That's what a relationship is about. Trust and love.
I would also suggest sitting down and talking to him about his friends. If he's going to support you with this baby neither of you really have time to hang with friends, do drugs etc. A baby is a high priority. So have him a talk about a few of these things and then tell us how it went.
*I'm giving real useful information here unlike some of the other posts.
If there's anymore information you would like on this subject. Please send me a PM and I will talk with you about it.
You can send me a pm by clicking "pm" button under my name.
Your welcome,
Detective RooTz
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