Everything has just changed feel like hell nothing seems to be good

[TheOverAnalyzer_808]

Just another thing. I don't mean to sound corny, but Fake it until you make it. It is a pretty straightforward idea that can be used in any negative situation. Just keep smiling and living your life and be happy (that's where the faking comes in) and in no time at all you will be happy without trying. Some people think this means to remain in denial, but that is really not the case it is somewhat of a temporary behavioral mod (In my opinion).

Example:
Freshman year I had to work with an individual who I despised (well the feeling was mutual). At first it was hard to work with him because he just kept getting under my skin, but then I thought I would try faking the fact that I had no problem with him and by the end of the project we were like two peas in a pod. In closing, everything happens for a reason man and if you and the aforementioned girl were meant to be together it will happen.

First of let me say you're not a retard. You're a nice bloke I'm sure.


Secondly we all have to experience some pain in our life whether or not that may be relationships or other times of suffering.

I think you need something to take you mind of it all. Maybe post around here and get to know people? Maybe start a new sport or hobby.

Do some constructive things with your time, read a book for instance play some games. Anything that makes you feel that tiny bit better.

Eventually the pain and bad feelings will go; believe me

I hope it works out for you and if you need someone to talk to I'm here

p.s. Try giving your ex to cool down, let her process what's happened because she's probably finding it hard to deal with it too. Then talk to her in a couple of days maybe.

Great advice Sam