05-25-2010, 02:05 PM
(05-25-2010, 09:44 AM)BladeCNH Wrote: You should try and become straight.
Your ignorance is amazing. Sexuality isn't a fuckking choice.
On topic:
M, I can imagine it being a hard situation for you. About all you can do is go with your instincts. If you feel a wrong vibe from the guy is may be good to just leave it.
I know you would like just sex but perhaps meet up with the guy before hand, get some lunch and get to know him a bit better?
Could you elaborate on why you feel you could be raped, has it happened or nearly happened before, or simply because you are a small person who can not stand up for yourself if you truely needed to.
There is always the option of learning self defense, but I personally know that most of these self defense classes are rubbish and wouldn't work in real scenarios.
You really need to decide what you want to do on your own, don't take anyone's opinions from here and fully act upon them. The final choice is yours.
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