05-17-2010, 11:48 AM
Don't let this guy do this to you. I have a feeling he's using you when he needs you. When it's time that he needs a companion because He is feeling lonely he will come to you. Although its great that you give him that comfortability you have to realize that he could just be using you. Tell him the truth. Show to him that if he doesn't want to go the other half way and make a call to you then you shouldn't have to stand for this. Although you may feel he likes you he could just be putting you in a never ending circle that will only hurt one person. I don't know you, but I feel for you. My friend does this to girls as a technique to get them to want them to do anything to get his attention. (Usually resulting in sexual actions) He will make them feel like crap and show it that he is the answer when truthfully he's the one bringing you down. What I suggest is you call him tell him what's up. If he does not want to comply to your needs, drop him. Go on Facebook and look up old friends you once new at your school. Make plans with them. If you have a job make conversation with others there about self interests. This can help you find companions. You can also try E-harmony if you really want to find a love of you life. No i'm not joking. A lot of my other friends have found people that have found the one to marry on there. If you ever see the commercial "Laura and Randy" are friends of mine. With my closing, I really do wish you luck. For the sake of your heart though, try your best not to go back to him. He is only out to hurt you. (imho)
Yours truly,
Rob
Yours truly,
Rob