05-01-2010, 02:04 AM
I'm pretty much in the same situation as you are bro [ This is why I'm calling you a bro :A ].
In my case, my mother is the one that is refusing just like you dad though. In my case, my girlfriend is also refusing to continue dating because she, just like my family, are afraid to loose me.
This is a shitty situation to be in, on one side, you don't want to "hurt" the ones you love, and on the other, you want to follow your dream.
I have 1 and a half year to go before I can join the Military Academy so I'm not that worried atm, but constantly thinking about it.
Good luck bro.
In my case, my mother is the one that is refusing just like you dad though. In my case, my girlfriend is also refusing to continue dating because she, just like my family, are afraid to loose me.
This is a shitty situation to be in, on one side, you don't want to "hurt" the ones you love, and on the other, you want to follow your dream.
I have 1 and a half year to go before I can join the Military Academy so I'm not that worried atm, but constantly thinking about it.
Good luck bro.